New contest: How rebellious were you when you fell in love for the first time?

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I am delighted to have you all my blog, I really appreciate your presence. I want to thank this amazing community for their efforts of organising contests for steemians to share their ideas on any given topic by it's organisers, a special thanks to the user @pandora2010 for such a wonderful contest topic, I am here to share my ideas on the topic; How rebellious I was when I fell in love for the first time. So friends, keep reading down to know my ideas on the above topic

Being rebellous means intentionally refusing to obey the standard of a particular thing. My first relationship was a very childish one🤦‍♀️ I was not suppose to start having a boyfriend at that age but you know, that spirit of maturity won't allow me as of then because I feel my peers are having boyfriends but that was child ish anyways, thankGod for how it ended.

At what age did you have your first boyfriend?

Smiles.... I started having a boyfriend at the age of 15 years old, at that time, I was in senior secondary 1 which is my newest entrance to senior class and this is the age where I needed to give more attention to my teacher in the class but I will keep thinking of how I like and cherish him.

Was it hidden or not? How was the experience?

Of course it was very hidden because when my parents gets to know about it, I will be in a mess. The guy who was my boyfriend that time was 22 years old so most times he will like me to go to their house but then I do not have time to go visit him couple with the way I am going to be questioned by my mother of where and why are my going to where I want to go. The experience was not a funny one because at some point, the guy was saying if I am not serious he was going to walk away. Because of that love I have for him, I will always apologise.

Did your behavior with your parents change because you had a boyfriend?

Yes! My behaviour suddenly changed and I felt I have arrived and all I decide, I want it to be final. I was so brilliant in the class but when I started having a boyfriend, I started forgetting things and my teacher had to inform my parents on how dull I am becoming in the class.

The joy of everything was that, my parent do not know anything about the relationship until the breakup. Because they would have been saying a guy is the reason I am being stubborn in school. Which I was not supposed to have a boyfriend at that age?

What difference does she see right now about dating that she didn't see before?

Actually, my present relationship I can call it dating because that boy i dated was just after my body which I realised it quickly and refused by moving out of the relationship but for this very relationship, I have seen maturity and responsibility. The difference is clear, then I was providing for almost all in the relationship but now, I feel like a queen.

Is it true that one does everything for one's first love?

Yes ofcoure? It is when two comes together that they begin to know the through color in themselves and having that first love makes one feel heavenly as though these is there is no anyother person to love.

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The story about your first love was very interesting indeed. I mean you were a teenager then. At that time fathers and mothers never take this kind of relationship for granted which requires us to hide from them. But unfortunately broke up with her.

Thank you so much for sharing your first love experience with us.
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Thank you very much friend for reading through and your warm comment on my post, I really appreciate.

The most annoying relationships I see young girls have are the ones who the guys are so possessive and need the little girl's attention always, even when they know that she should be building her future by then.

But I would not expect anything better since he agreed to date a minor, not even been friends with her. He was old enough to know that her hormones were just playing pranks on her. I don't even know why I'm so vexed at this guy right now.

Why try to put you in an uncomfortable position?

...the guy was saying if I am not serious he was going to walk away.

It was a phase though and I'm glad that you have most past it filled with wisdom.

Hello dear lady.
What a pleasure to receive her participation, by the way I discovered that she was a good student but love made her lower her academic level, I think that would worry my mother when that time comes.

It was a pleasure to learn more about you and your experience in love.
Success in the contest 🤞🏻
Many blessings..🙏🏻

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