Dear friends,
I am Jyoti from India and im here going to participate in this SEC 13 Week5 contest :https://steemit.com/hive-168072/@steemladies/sec13-wk5-we-are-not-perfect. Everyone has needs in life. Everyone has searches. Everyone is born as a human being is searching untill they die. That is what they expect in life. It is my personal choice to come and expect more from life. We will see it in this article.
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What do you want from life?
I think there's nothing wrong with having expectations from life or from our loved ones. Everyone is expecting something. Such expectations are incorrect if they conflict with other people's emotions and wishes. We might also establish the expectation after confirming that the One to whom we look for has the capacity to meet our expectations.
Expectations should always have boundaries since they are addictive. This does not imply that a husband and wife should have no expectations of one another. but ought to be lower. An excessive amount of expectations can occasionally ruin a relationship. Think before you expect, then.
Expectations also vary with time and we think about what we want until we get married. We expect everything about what our children want after marriage, how to change them, how to educate them, how to end their marriage. We expect an output from them. That's what I expected and my children have given me the result I expected. Thanks a lot to them and to my God. And my main hope is to become a WHALE on Steemit, which I think will happen as soon as possible
What are your fears?
Everyone has fear Fear is a necessity in life. One can only be safe if there is fear. I have been afraid of that since childhood. We did our homework regularly because we were afraid of being beaten by the teachers. Similarly, we did not make mistakes because our parents used to beat us. It can be said that fear regulates us. And our fears change according to the situation.
As a child, ghost stories were scary. During the Corona era, it was scary even to catch a cold and sneeze. Now my son is growing up and in his teenage years there is a fear that he might go down a wrong path or get wrong friendships. Also, my son is getting older and I am worried about getting sick
What are your strengths?
My strength is my skill because I have a business in hand I don't need to fear any event I can do business on my own and I can earn on my own. So I think my skill is my biggest strength. Also, I think my family is my greatest strength. Because we are united, we have decided many things together and solved many problems. Steemit is my biggest strength at the moment, it fills me with endless cash needs and gives me courage.
What are your flaws? And
There is no person without flaws, everyone has some flaws. No one is perfect because when God created man he gave him beauty but gave him less knowledge. He has given knowledge to some but less beauty to him. Likewise, wealth is limited to those who have talent. Wealthy people lack talent. Similarly, despite having wealth, knowledge, talent and beauty, he does not have peace in his family. Thus everyone has flaws and I have some flaws too. It's just that sometimes I get angry. I don't know what I'm talking about when I get angry. Also sometimes I rush and in haste I make some mistakes. My biggest weakness is that I listen to anyone and sometimes my decisions end up being wrong.
What can you do to become a better versions of yourself?
I want to be myself and everyone can't be the same. Everyone has flaws. So even with minor flaws, I like to be myself. I try to change the flaws I have, but to no avail. A large part of life has now been lived. I am approaching middle age. So I don't think there is any journey to change me after this. So I want to be myself despite the flaws. Because no one is perfect, and so am I.
I would like to invite
@sumayaorin to participate in this useful contest and win.
Discord : @jyoti-thelight#6650 Telegram :- https://telegram.org/dl
I an happy to hear that life has been good to you and your children have given you everything you desire.
Becoming a whale in this platform is indeed a huge achievement and i pray that you achieve it very soon rather than later Amen 🙏
Everyone has fear in life, and yes when i was young i am always scared of being beaten by my parents and I was also scared of ghost stories but also as I grow up it decrease.
I am happy to hear that your son is gradually becoming a man and I pray he doesn't get sick and this is one of your fears.
Wow 😯 with your skill you have achieve a lot in life and I am also happy to hear that your family is your greatest strength as they want the best for you in life so they always encourag you to do more and you have also solve problems together which is vey good.
Indeed steemit is also one od your strength 💪 as it helps you with the cash needed to solve your financial needs.
Indeed everyone has flaws because no body is perfect so once you stop getting angry easily, stop listening to everyone and working hard then you will only become better.
I wish you success 🙏 mam 🤗
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Yes i want to be a whale in this platform and i hope it will happen , thank you for reading and passing a valuable feedback
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Upvoted. Thank You for sending some of your rewards to @null. It will make Steem stronger.
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Hai temanku @jyoti-thelight anda juga mengalaminya
Saya pernah merasakan hal itu ketika sekolah SD dulu, saya selalu menyegerakan untuk menyelesaikan tugas PR yang di berikan oleh guru. Mereka terlihat begitu seram jika kita tidak membuat tugas, tapi tujuan mereka sangat baik, mendidik kita untuk terbiasa disiplin.
Salam sukses kawan, semoga beruntung dalam tantangan ini.
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Greetings Mam ☺️
Yes indeed sometimes we expect a lot but it all happens opposite to our expectations which hurt us. But we should never lose hope and try to improve ourselves and improve ourselves a better version. By the way I'm very glad to read your publication and thank you so much for sharing a very interesting post and mentioning me. I wish you very good luck 🤞
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Thank you for participating in the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 13 in the Steem For Ladies Community,
Nice to know that your strength is your skill. And it is because of this skill that you are able to run a business today. I really admire you for your skills.
And yes, it goes without saying that Steemit platform has many users like us who are able to fulfill their needs with the money they earn from it. Best wishes to you for the competition.
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Thank you for the great review
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You are right about this friend. We all have expectations and sometimes even fear that the expectations will not be met which can lead to anxiety. We also have fears of the unknown and fear of failing in what we want to achieve but we must also know how to overstep out fear, you can take a look at this as I reiterated the importance of this on my post we are not perfect. And do what is expected of us. Warm regards
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Yes we have expectations and fears, thank you for reading, i'll soon read your post and give my feedback. Thank you for spending your valuable time on my post
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We are just human being and expectation something from someone is a nature of us. It becomes more from our near and dear, family and friends. But, if we customize ourselves in such a way that decrease our expectation from anybody, a drastic change will happen in our life. We will be less disappointed, will be less to depress and less angry. It is my personal experience.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts here with us. Happy writting!
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Hi Jyoti I thoroughly enjoyed reading Your insightful post on lifes expectations fears strengths flaws & the journey to becoming better version of oneself. your honesty about expectations resonated with me. It's true boundaries are crucial & Balance is key in relationships. Your dedication to your family & your dreams especially becoming a WHALE on Steemit is admirable. as you navigate the fears of parenting remember that unity in family is formidable strength. Your acknowledgment of flaws and the desire for self-acceptance is both humble & brave. Best wishes on your journey may success
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I am glad my post was interesting to read for you, yes my goal is to become a whale in this platform, thank you for reading and passing a valuable comment .
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Hello dear @jyoti-thelight mam, You told us that your strength is your skill because you have a business in hand so you don't need to fear any event which is pretty cool. You can trade yourself and you can earn yourself so you think your skills are your biggest strength which is nice to know. Also you think your family is your biggest strength because you are united and you take many decisions together. I appreciate your presentation.
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Yes i believe my strength is my skill, thank you for reading and giving a lovely comment
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