Good day steemians!

Today, I will post my first ever participation in the contest organized by the community Steem for Ladies.

While I am scrolling the community, because it has been my routine that before I will post something I had to check the community who were posting and reading some of the post. And while I am doing it, I find the contest interesting. And I was able to stop and think to participate.

✨A SHORT GLIMPSE!✨

Just a short background of myself. I am from Philippines who belong to a big family. My mom was still 19 years of age when she decided to get married with my father who was 20 years old. And now, we were already 8 in the family and I am the eldest. Our youngest just graduated her degree last year and already had a work as office staff.

We really had a big, happy and successful family. And we thank our parents for the good education they gave to us. All of us already had work, 2 from abroad, 2 were office staff and 2 were teachers. It was indeed a roller coaster journey before we became successful on our own field but then God never leave us so we tried to stand still and conquer all the challenges in life.

Before I got married, this has been my dream to have a big family like mama and papa.

But God still didn't gave it to me this time. At the moment, I still had one kid. Actually, I got pregnant last October, unfortunately it didnt succeeded. I had my miscarriage on December. But I am still positive that God has prepared something amazing for me. May it not be a big family but a better blessing for everyone.

✨A HAPPY FAMILY✨

What really entails a happy family? For me, a happy family is to have a family who communicates well. It doesnt mean that you are rich and had a big house and plenty of money, you are now very happy. But even if you dont have all of those but you are contented of what your family have, you are definitely be happy. Plus you communicate with your laughters and problems, it is indeed a perfect family.

✨RESPONSIBILITY?✨

Responsibility is something you had to work for it. And for me, in order to have a happy family, both couples are responsible on it. A happy family cant be obtained if only one party is working on it, it should be both and had a helping hand.

A part of lacking of financial makes the family unhappy, but what really the main reason why a family is not happy because they dont understand each other. Nobody will humble down. In short, both couple has pride and no one is willing to sacrifice.

So, in order for you to have a happy family, you should be contented, thankful, understand each other, communicate and learn the value of sacrificial love.

That is all for today. Thank you for reading.

I am inviting my friends @liamnov, @jess88 and @natz04 to share their entries.

Sincerely,

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