What will it be? #74

Hello to all of you!

Hope all of you are doing well.

So before starting, firstly i would like to thank all the members of the community to host these contest, the topic are very unique and brain storming.

So today i want to share thoughts on "doubt".

"Doubt, Shaak, Sanshaya Sandhi", these are the words that are used in different ways. I have written this because we can use the word happiness only to be happy, to enjoy or to be carefree, but we have doubts in many situations and their process is also different, the examples of which are as follows:-

1. When children have exams, they have doubts that this question or that question will come, they should remember this or that, they don't know how many marks they will get, I don't know whether my classmate will get good marks or not, this doubt is there.

1. Another example of doubt is when we arrange the marriage of our children or when we got married, then the girl's family has this doubt in their mind that they don't know whether the relationship will be confirmed or whether people from both sides will agree or not.

2. The most important example of doubt is in the relationship between husband and wife, that too when one or both of them are of a promiscuous nature, in such a situation both are always surrounded by doubt. Because some incident or the other keeps happening in their life due to which they have to doubt, many times doubt is the reason for divorce or separation, although it can also happen that the doubt of both of them is wrong, for this they should sit together and clear their doubts.

3. The tendency or example which I should have kept first, I am writing it now, yes, the most important relationship is doubt in the girlfriend-boyfriend relationship, which happens the most at this age because after marriage a stamp is put on it but before marriage the boy and the girl are like a kite without a string or we keep a glass and there is water, wine, sherbet, shikanji, juice, beer, vodka etc. all around, it is not known who will put what in this glass. So we were talking about love before marriage, in which doubts remain even if the love is true or fake.

4. One more special thing which our youth is facing the most is yes I am talking about doubts related to career that even after studying so much they remain in the same number that what kind of job they will get and whether they will get it as per their choice or not, if our youth becomes strong then many things will become easy but what is their fault, youth is the arrangement of life in which one has the capability to do everything.If they get the right platform, their life becomes easy.

1. There are parents whose entire life is spent in this world. They don't know how they will get their in-laws after marriage. Then at the time of having a child, they don't know whether it will be a boy or a girl. Whatever happens, how will they get married or what will they do? How will they get a job? What kind of family will they get? Will the brother-in-law and sister-in-law understand us or not? Will the sister-in-law and brother-in-law be satisfied or not? How to keep the mother-in-law and father-in-law happy? These doubts keep bothering them throughout their lives. I don't understand if there is any solution to these doubts or not. But I still remember some things that I said in my childhood. But I never followed them. But maybe I should have done them. Those things are: God has given me two ears. Listen with one and throw them out from the other. Look at everyone equally with both eyes. And yes, in the end, one important thing is that no one can know more about us than us. So, if you are right, truthful and honest, then don't worry about anyone because no matter how much doubt someone casts on you, it shouldn't matter to you. There is an old Hindi saying, 'The elephant moves on its own, the dog eats a hundred thousand', which means that coins will make noise but currency notes remain silent.
   

Last but not the least - One very important 'doubt' remains about food, many times when we move towards obesity, we feel that we should eat this thing, eat that thing, and we remain in this zone that if I eat this, it might harm me, I will become fat, and if I don't eat it, then our life is full of greed, in such a situation we remain very tense, many times even when it reaches our mouth, we leave that thing thinking that no brother this will harm you, in such a situation it is very important to have self-satisfaction. So brother, do whatever comes to your mind, live as you wish, but stay away from 'doubts.'

Lastly i would like to invite @senehasa and @aviral123 to the contest.

I hope all of you will like it.

Thankyou