Contest| "Romance, the Ultimate Key to a Successful Marriage"

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Hello everyone,
It's your favorite Steemian @rakiya from Nigeria and I'm delighted to join in this contest organized by @ninapenda in this noble community today. It's a wonderful contest and I love to share my participation in it.

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🔻 Do you think being romantic guarantees the safety of any marriage?

Yes, I think being romantic guarantees the safety of any marriage. Being romantic means to remain attractive to your spouse. The problem with most women today is that once they get into the marriage house, they stop being attractive to their husband and that alone will make the man look outside.

Any woman who wants to keep her marriage must remain very romantic and do more of that which she was doing that attracted the man in the first place. When you do, your husband will not be tired of having you around because what made him come to you from the beginning is still there for him.

🔻Have you experienced romance before, yes/no? How does it feel?

I have experienced romance before and I must say it feels so good. I'm not married yet but I have a boyfriend whom we are still dating at this moment and if it's the will of God, we will end up together as husband and wife.

Romance feels good because you will always want to be with the person. After all, the person gives you joy and happiness. You will always want to make the person happy too by doing only what makes him happy as he too tries to make you happy.

🔻 To have a successful marriage, what must you do?

In other to have a successful marriage, in my opinion, what you must do is to ensure you know and understand your spouse very well and also marry your friend with whom you can joke and play around.

When you marry your friend, you will know when he is happy and when he is sad and you can always play and joke together. You will also know what he likes most and what he doesn't like. With all this knowledge your marriage will be successful.

Finally, you need to be very submissive even though your husband is your friend and you play and joke together. Every man wants a woman who respects them so do your best always to show your respect to him.

🔻 What are the romantic techniques you think should apply to our love lives?

One of the major romantic techniques I think should be applied to our love lives is our dressing. Every woman should learn to dress properly because most times it's a woman dressing and character that attracts a man.

Don't stop looking good simply because you have gotten a man in your life. Always strive to make him want to be around you and take you places because he loves the way you present yourself.

I want to invite @shiftitamanna, @noelisdc, and @aviral123 to join the contest also.

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Thank you for participating in this contest and setting 10% our community. I love your definition of been romantic. You said it is to remain attractive to your spouse. You have a deep understanding. Best wishes…..

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If you have to be, act romantic 24/7 I can guarantee you it's fake, not more than a habit and once a habit it's not special anymore.

If it comes to women not taking care of themselves I don't agree with you. Make up and being dressed up have nothing to do with romance.
Many women do but if it makes the husband jealous, it's also hard to look like a queen if you raise babies, toddlers, five kids at the same time while the husband has fun with his friends and every penny is spend on the children and him.
Can be of course this is a culture difference.

What annoys me most is all those men not taking care of themselves and still believing they are the golden goose.

I hope your friend will be the one you hope for.
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My dear there is nothing that gives joy and happiness in any relationship or marriage than getting married to a person you sees as your brother, a good friend and your husband.

It will make the marriage or relationship to be so romantic. Even when the person wronged you. You will find it easy to forgive him or her.