SEC13 WK3 - Is drama only for women or is it also for men?

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Greetings everyone and welcome to my engagement post for the Is drama only for women or is it also for men?, hosted by this prestigious Steem for Ladies community.


Are you dramatic by nature? Yes, no, or maybe? Why?

Being dramatic simply means extremely expressing our emotions. To this effect, I can be dramatic at certain times. But naturally, it's a No for me.

I am someone who loves to say things are they are, but I can be jovial about it sometimes. Then, there some cases my actions can surprise everyone.


Do you think your opposite sex is more dramatic than yours? Why?

Anyone (male or female) is allowed to express their emotions in ways that suit them, so it would not be nice for me to say a particular gender is naturally more dramatic.

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Being a man, my opposite sex is a woman, but just like men, women also express their emotions in many ways. Therefore, it's not fair to say that women are more dramatic than men or this could be true but we still can't prove it as we don't know all the men and all the women. How we express our emotions is affected by various elements such as our character, our upbringing, culture, and personal experiences.

I've seen cases where some men are more dramatic than women, hence, it's important to know that everyone has their way of expressing their emotions, regardless of their gender.


When you get sick, do you tell everybody, or do you keep it to yourself? Why?

Sickness is not something you hide and keep to yourself, like my people would say, what you hide inside is more poisonous to your health no matter how small it is than the one tell people around you to help you out with.

Even the English people say, "A problem shared, is a problem half solved". Meaning when we share our problems with the people around us, they might be in a better position to help us out. For this reason, when I'm sick, I always tell two people, my mum and my elder sister.

I would like to use this medium to advise those reading this post to share their troubles with friends and loved ones rather than keep it all to themselves.


Are you one of those who adds some drama to the situation, or do you tell things as they happen?

I'm someone who tries to keep things real and tell them as they happen, drama is honestly not my thing or way of approach.

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For me, I see adding drama to situations as often creating unnecessary tension and making matters more complicated unless it's a funny situation and I want to make the best out of it to share laughter. By adding drama, it can lead to misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and even damaging relationships we've built.

Therefore, I rather approach situations with honesty, open communication, and a focus on finding solutions that can lead to more productive outcomes.


What drama have you created in life in public? Tell us all about it

I'm a rather straightforward person as I see drama as unnecessary, but I think there is this case where I have created a scene on a joke to make it much funnier.

It was a case where my brother fell in the mud on our way back home from school, and when he was asked what happened, he tried to explain as it happened, but I jumped in and made a scene which hurt his feelings as I demonstrated in laughter and everyone was laughing at him. Even when he tried to clear the air that, it wasn't how it happened, nobody cared to listen to his version as everyone was just laughing.


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Hi @sammy, I have read your entry, and you explained so well. I sense a straight forward man here, but believe me when I tell you that the other side of you is dramatic. A bit of drama is just an expression of emotions in a different and stylish way. Being a man or woman does not give credit to who acts more I think the person involved is what matters because some people would freeze out in a little drama. Just like you mentioned, "a problem shared is half solved," yes, that is why I also share my sickness to people afar and near because the body changes and no one knows the next minute. Oh! I bet you, from your story, you are dramatic, I knew it! And laughing at your brother in an embarrassing way was out of the blue.... 😂

Best wishes Sir!

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  • I completely agree with you that it would be wrong to choose one as the one who creates more drama because everyone has their own circumstances. In some houses, women do more drama, in some houses, men do more drama. The joke you made about your brother falling into the mud. I can understand what they must have gone through.

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Greetings dear friend!

Being a female, I'm not a dramatist. I'm a serious person who have pragmatic approach of life. I appreciate the realistic approach for smoothy and peaceful life. Wish you good luck my dear friend.

Saludos amigo, genial post. Es cierto que no debemos encasillar el dramatismo solamente para los hombres o mujeres, ya que ambos pueden o no llegar a tal mundo.

Ser dramático es algo que a veces tiene justificación pero en otras no, asi que debemos ser cuidadosos con ello.

Éxitos y bendiciones.