Contest | "Nowadays love is a fashion or a feeling?"

Good morning friends

Happy new month. Am glad we are finally in the last month of the year and I pray this month gives us joy. Is a season of love, you know we have both positive and negative love as well as mature and premature love or relationships. This topic is mainly talking about premature love/relationship. I thank @aviral123 for organizing this contest.

💚 Nowadays it has become a fashion for a young boy or girl to be in a love relationship, express your views on this?

Am a teenage girl and I still want to express my view on this topic because I have really seen alot from my classmates and friends. Relationship is what every boy and girl wants to be involved in as is one of the top things that are trending now. So many teenagers are in a relationship because they want to be like their friends and this is very bad.

Nowadays teenagers act very stupid, they forget themselves alot and it is when they have done something wrong they begin to realize themselves. They always feel they know what's best for them and they don't listen to their elders at all because they always want to do what they feel like so that they can live a comfortable life.

Some of my classmates in high school then where involved in stupid relationships I don't see any gain in, sometimes you will see a boy and a girl going to our school backyard to do nonsense I don't even want to care about. Nowadays teenage girls even send their naked pictures to their boyfriends.

💚 Is love at this age true? Is there any future for love made at this age?

Being in a relationship at this age isn't necessary at all, I don't even think about it as all I do is to make sure I focus on my education and avoid unnecessary boys. We are currently in a wicked world and if we are not careful we might even get used for ritual. I always advise my classmates but they never listen and I will just mind my business.

As this age, we are supposed to be thinking about our future and also learning different skills that can help us in life, when I brought steemit to my classmates they were just laughing at me, saying all sorts of nonsense about steemit and I just overlooked it and never brought out the topic to them again.

💚 What is the belief in this false relationship?

Teenagers in such relationship always believe that they can do whatever they want, the worst part is when a girl is dating a rich boy, she always behaves anyhow, waste foods, insults her elders and peers. Such girl will be thinking her future is settled.

They normally believe their life is now perfect and they have found a soulmate. Most times when I even remember that my elder brother is still single and living a highly money-minded life, i tell myself to not even think of being in a relationship because my brother who's now an adult doesn't have a girlfriend so who am I to have a boyfriend.

💚 Give some suggestions to test true love?

Patience : Most times boys are always impatient when it comes to a relationship, most especially when they are dealing with a girl that's very smart and wise. The girl will tell the boy to wait till they are university graduates and once the boy waits without much complain then he's an ideal guy.

Knowledge test Just like what I saw in other steemian's entry, knowledge test must be put in check as most guys or ladies doesn't even want to know the likes and dislikes of their lover as they just want to do what they intend to do and leave the relationship immediately. Check it your partner is caring to know more about you.