Tell your Story #28 || Beginning of 2025 Always Be-Confident || by @sitaraindaryas

Greetings from
Sitaraindaryas,

How are you this morning? I am fine, Allahmdolillah. Today I am here with you with my new post in ladies community. So let's start my discussion with you today.

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Everyone is different. No matter what their characteristics or personality, everyone is different. No one is the same as anyone else. Even our Creator has created every human being in a different form. But despite the fact that no one is the same as anyone else, we keep comparing ourselves with others. We forget that we are the ones comparing ourselves. Comparing ourselves with others is not befitting.

So and so did so and so at this age, so I have to do the same. Someone has gone two steps ahead of me, so I have to go two steps ahead with him. All such thoughts are completely wrong. Thinking that someone is going two steps ahead means that I have to go ahead is the biggest mistake. We should walk at our own pace. Whether it takes a little while to reach the destination.

We will reach the destination at some point or the other. However, if we try to walk fast while comparing ourselves with others, then we will find ourselves stumbling in the middle of the road. Therefore, if we step away from all these things of comparing ourselves with others and compare ourselves with ourselves, it will be good for us.

If you keep your goals and dreams fixed and move at your own pace, at some point you will see that the goal is fulfilled. If you move with someone, if you compare yourself with someone, it will never be possible to reach that goal. You have to compare yourself with yourself, not with anyone else.

We ourselves know what is possible for us and what is not possible now. What is the point of chasing after the success of others? The goal of others is not the same as my goal. The work that can be done by others is not the same as the work that I can do myself.

I said at the beginning that every person's intelligence, knowledge, personality, preferences, everything is different. And because of our differences, we cannot compare ourselves with others. But we have always ignored all these things.

A job holder has achieved success in his life by working, which does not mean that to achieve success in life, I also have to work. To be successful, you have to act in your own way and cannot be compared to anyone else. Your success will come based on your own ability, your own will, and your own knowledge. If we want to move forward, we have to compare ourselves with ourselves, not with others.

Anyway, I want to say one last thing, everyone should be allowed to be their own. Sometimes it is not possible to achieve anything by forcing against one's opinion. Sometimes it is not appropriate to compare yourself with others. Because others are like others, I am like myself. Therefore, you should compare yourself with yourself. Not with anyone else.

I am saying good night here today. May everyone be well and healthy. May Allah protect us. I invite my friends @suboohi, @jyoti-thelight, @ahsansharif and @uzma4882 for participating in this contest.

Regards,
Sitaraindaryas