Welcome to Steem For Ladies! 💕

Things on Steemit has changed a lot.

Here is some newcomer posts that will help you with your Steemit road.
https://steemit.com/hive-172186/@the-gorilla/newcomers-certification
https://steemit.com/hive-172186/@the-gorilla/new-to-steemit-start-here
https://steemit.com/hive-172186/@the-gorilla/steemit-communities-join-now

The best would be to start with the Newcomers Certification and by writing a new introduction post as requested by the newcomer's team four years ago.
https://steemit.com/betterlife/@kauai/introduce-yourself-mi-primer-post-de-kauai-27-sept-2020

Once you have written this post you are more than welcome to post in our community.

Good luck!