It is funny how adults would engage in activities and expect an unnatural outcome.

First, you have an affair with someone who clearly is not your legal partner and you are shocked to see the consequences of your actions.

So, while engaging in the act without contraceptives, what were they expecting? Teddy Bears?

Also, it is highly ridiculous to hear an adult blame another for their actions. That's narcissistic. There are better ways to communicate with your spouse when there is a conflict, especially when you are aware of your reputation and prestige.

To the 19 year-old girl, I have nothing to say to her. I hope she is financially stable and ready for motherhood because it isn't a bed of roses. She should quit playing victim. If she wasn't scared of pregnancy, at least she should have been worried about HIV/AIDS, herpes virus or gonorrhoea.

There is even another one - Syphilis that can stay in ones body for over 10 years. It results in madness if left untreated. I hope she considered this as well and kept enough money to run tests.

When our parents advice us to avoid some activities, it's not only so we can share a stool with the creator in heaven but so we can live a happier and fulfilling life.

PS I'm taking my time to share my thought on this hypothetical issue for learning purposes.