SEC13 WK5: We are not perfect!

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Greetings dear ladies in the house..... I'm @vickyson.

What do you want from life?

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Life itself is what I want from this existence and I want peace of mind love and long life, if I have a long life and peace of mind I will be able to achieve my goals and aims my objective of living can only come to pass, if I have peace of mind, Without Love your heart can be cut short because there is high blood pressure attached to unhappiness when you don't have joy in your heart it create room for sickness it leaves a vacuum of high blood pressure which kill you faster

I wish that God would Grant me a long life to see my children grow under my watch I know that God is The Watcher of men's activities but he placed me here as a security guide for the children's steps, if I should be granted the opportunity to raise them I'll be very grateful to live I have seen many orphan who have lost their parent from bed and lost parental guide and ended up before their time, I know that some were able to make it on their own through the hard way we all need our parents supposed to grow.

What are your fears?

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One of my fears is death I'm afraid that one day I might say goodbye to my children till I come from the market or traveling or sleep and never wake up to share in their future happiness another fear is being a widow I have seen many widow engaging in one life or the other because they have lost their husbands and I also fear outbreak of War because once there is outbreak of insecurity it destabilize people activities a friend was telling me back then when we are in school in our matriculation every parents were around supporting their children taking pictures he was alone when

I ask he said that he lost his parents and two siblings and he's the only one that survived in their family in further discussion he said he pitied me when I asked why? he said I am through with my cry it remains yours that your parents are alive that has been my fear that one day I will have to cry over my parents and I wish that day never comes anytime soon.

What are your strengths?

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I find strength in God each time I'm weak and unhappy, I always go back to him for Comfort each time I pray I find strength in him to push harder in him that I find hope and I always have confidence in his words and another thing is freeing my mind from what may give me a heart attack I come to realize that even if I worried it doesn't stop the problem

and even if I cry a millions time my problem will still be there when I wake up in the morning so the best thing I do is to dust them all at his feet when I pray I say to him you know all the solutions to my problem do as you please, also I found strength in singing I love singing worshiping song each time I'm weak

What are your flaws? And

In existence no one is perfect, one way or the other we have imperfections and weaknesses we have something that brings out the Beast in US even in the crowd in your hidden places we have weaknesses because we are blood and flesh I can't say that I have a pointed out weakness that lives in me if it were back then I could have say that I have anger that rules me a lot when I was younger but as I Grow Up I try to control my anger and also

lack of confidence deal with me sometimes but all of those things I battle with them every day to reduce it as I grow older each day I learn and make amendments of lifestyle unlike teenager their blood is vibrating but now that I have become an adult I don't let my anger and lack of confidence to overrule me any longer.

What can you do to become a better version of yourself?

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to have a better version of myself is by showing myself the love that nobody can give and secondly is to build my self-esteem and confidence the strength that I need is in me, I have to activate it for me to become a better version I have to stand on my feet I don't need encouragement from someone else to stand,

I have to be that Rock that lives in me and also I need to have total confidence in God, his promises for my life are perfect all I need to do is to live a righteous life and obtain my blessings it doesn't matter how long I achieve them but I know that certainly a better version of me it coming.

Thank you for the given opportunity to always share our life experiences our fears and wants in life. I would love to invite @patjewell @goodybest @chant to participate in this contest.

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Really an inspiring piece of writing in which you include many aspects of your personality . No doubt no one is perfect in this world everyone has his own flaws. But the real thing is to recognize and review over mistakes. I'm praying for you and your family that you will pass a satisfying life with your husband and children. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

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Hola amiga, compartimos el mismo temor hacia la muerte, y es que en realidad es muy difícil pensar en la muerte cuando tenemos hijos pequeños y deseamos protegerlos y verlos realizado en un futuro.

La mayor fortaleza a todos los miedos es confiar en Dios, me alegra que te refugies en Él.

Saludos 🤗

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Thank you dear friend I'm grateful

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This is great dear friend, we don't have the power of our own his by his grace we are living..

Good luck here

Thank you dear I'm grateful for your time and support

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Hal yang paling penting dalam hidup ini dalah merencanakan sesuatu dengan baik, kemudian berdoa dan berharap semoga Tuhan memberikan yang terbaik buat kita semua. Tetap Optimis dalam situasi dan kondisi apapun.

Thank you for the word of encouragement, i appreciate dear friend.

Hello @vickyson
It is difficult to say how long we will live. We are afraid of the eternal truth that our death is inevitable and everyone has to taste death. We must live in the midst of our good deeds. It is very good for you to love yourself and have confidence in yourself. I wish you success in the competition.

Thank you so much my brother I'm grateful 🙏

Self-esteem and confidence as well as self-love is indeed very essential in the journey of becoming a better versions of ourselves.

It's good to know you're willing to work on improving these aspect.
With determination, you will surely achieve them all.

Thank you dear for your time and support.

Death seems to be the thing people feared most in life, but the funny truth is that death is the end of every mortal.you will leave to see your children children ma.
Good luck in this contest ma @vickyson

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Thank you for your kind words, I'm grateful ma.

@vickyson please do well to leave a comment on my post.

The fear of losing our loved ones is something to always reflect on. The community also expect so much from us. When we don't meet target we become depressed and we begin to feel tired of life.

Your write up is filled with so much emotions.

God is the only one we all need to run to in our darkest moment or time in life as we all are created to face one or two difficulties in life and the best we can truly do is to pray

God is always there even in time of troubles and we draw our comfort and strength from him

Nice entry dear friend

Kindly engage in my post
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My friend you have written so well, indeed the joy, love and peace of mind is what all asks for. The fear of death is a fear dreaded by everyone, the ability to stay alive and take good care of your children is all we pray and ask for. It might not be the easiest of things but then drawing strength from God as you rightly said is all that matters and should be priority. Success in the challenge

Thank you sweetheart for your time and support.

You have written well mu friend about life, peace of mind is very important in the life of everyone because once you are happy everything you seek for you will gradually get it.
Longife is the dream of every individual out there, like you said you want to see your children grow and become successful in life God will grant you long life and prosperity amen 🙏.

Death is one thing that every body is afraid of in life, because as far as you are alive there's hope and all that you want to achieve you will because you are alive.
The lord is your strength like you said singing and praying has become one of your strength in life which is veey good to hear because it's said that he who sings well prays twice.

Believing in your self and always learning from your mistake will make you a better person in life.
Success 🙏 my friend 🤝

Thank you so much dear for your time I am so grateful for your valuable comments.

You are welcome 🤗

Waooo your entry brought tears from my eyes, it is very woman's dream to see her children grown and become a successful person in the society.

Death is what we can not avoid but dieing untimely is what we don't want.

Dear friend I pray God to continue to give you the strength because he doesn't forget his children.
Good luck to you
@mesola cares.

Thank you sweetheart for the visit, I appreciate your support dear. 🙏

It's a pleasure reading through your post, knowing that you find strength in God is enough to know that you find him your all in all. Being afraid of death is normal and 9 out of ten persons feel the same way, I wish you luck in this contest.

God bless you dear for the visit and kind comment. 🙏

Hello @vickyson hope you are well. Your message supports an objective approach to self-improvement, emphasizing goals, learning from mistakes, and dedicated effort. An invitation to a contest adds to the sense of community and shared aspirations. Wishing you and your friends success in this journey of growth. Thanks for sharing such a positive and inspiring perspective.

Thank you dear friend your visit mean lot to me. in journey of life we need support of each other to grow. 🙏❤️