STEEMINDIA CONTEST NO#9 || IMPORTANCE OF MOTHER IN YOUR LIFE|| CLUB5050 || 10.05.2022

(My mother)

Hello,
Everyone,

How are you all?
Hope you all are well and had a great day.
Today's weather is like yesterday but very beautiful.
Cloudy sky, occasional rain.

So the hot temperature in the last few days seems to be lost because of this rain. We all are had been a little relieved.

Friends, today I will not share my daily routine with you. Today I will share with you all the importance of my mother in my life by participating in the @SteemIndia community contest no #9.

The word "mother" is short but it is the most loving word in each of our lives. As we grow older, we become more aware of the importance of this word.

Many of you will agree with me that when we are little our mother does not allow us to do such things we want for our own good. And at that time we are very angry with our mother. We think no one's mother is worse than my mother. But over time, that is likely to change.

(Me with my mother)

This is the same feeling our children have with us. And to be honest, after becoming a mother, our love and respect for our own mother also increases day by day.

Today's contest is write about the importance of my mother in my life. Honestly, I don't think it is possible for anyone to say or write about the importance of mother in life.

Although I have seen my mother endured many hardships throughout her life, but I have always seen a sweet smile on my mother's face. Our family was well off when I learned to understand. But my sisters have seen from an early age how my mother worked hard to keep our family well.

My mother was illiterate. So despite all the adversity, my mother educated our three sisters. Because even though mother was not educated in knowledge, she understood the importance of education. At a time when girls of our age were getting married in our village, my mother ignored all the people and made us study.

(My father, my sister and my mother)

My father used to earn only money to run the family. In fact, my mother used to run the family. And that's why we're here in life today. Today my two sisters are doing government service. I also got service but I don't join for my mother. Because when I get service my mother is bedridden because of cancer. It was not possible for the sisters to take care of mother because they were already married.

So at that time I had to make that difficult decision to leave the service and to stay by my mother's side. But I have no regrets about that. Today I write all this things because I want to told you all that we three sisters have been qualified enough,just because of my mother.

But you know sadly, we haven't been able to make her happy compared to what she did for us. By the time my sisters wert stabilised, Mother was very sick. Mother's bone marrow cancer was diagnosed at that time.

Then darkness surrounds us. The two sisters are married. I am alone at home with my mother. I saw my mother's pain from the front for the first time. Even if I wanted to, I could not share that suffering. Thus one day my mother left us forever.

(My mother doing laxmi puja for the last time at our house)

Another chapter of life began. Every day I still feel how difficult life can be without mother. Today, even after 10 years, everything is shaken from inside because of the absence of mother.

The importance of my mother in my life is immense. As much as I have learned in life because of my mother. Humanity, conscience, whatever is created inside me is also the contribution of mother. I also learned from her that, if anything hurts you, you have to accept it with a smile.

Even after all that I believe I couldn’t be a better person like my mom. Actually everyone's own mother is the best. Whose mother is still alive they are really lucky. So guys stay with your mother, keep her happy.

(I took this picture on the last death anniversary of my mother.)

Believe me mothers don't want too much. They want very little for being happy. So if you keep her happy as a child, you will see that God will keep you happy. And your child will learn a lot from watching you.

I don't have too many pictures of my mother with me. I didn't really have a good quality camera phone at that time. And taking selfies was not so popular then, even though I still don't like taking selfies. However, I gave some pictures from our old album, hopefully you all will loved those pictures.

Take care everyone. Always stay happy and healthy.

I would like to invite @roopk97, @piudey and @birjudanak to participate in the contest.

cc:
@sduttaskitchen
@monz122
@deepak94
@jyoti-thelight