Love is said to be a beautiful thing. Everyone on Earth desires to love and be loved in return. Despite various factors of life ranging from family pedigree and background, ethnicity, culture, tradition, religion, personality traits, race, distance, social and economic factors, the quest for Love can never be undermined.
We all come to love because we're imperfect and needed someone that will compliment our life by filling the imperfect loops in our heart. That's why it is usually said logically that in union, 1+1=1 which implies that when an imperfect man mediates with an imperfect woman, they become one flesh in perfection. By default, the emotional and physiological need of a woman is expected to find expression in her man, but in many relationships today, it's a pity that many relationships partners are yet to understand this concept well.
Many relationships today that are in chaos and diverse conflicts, started on the platform of genuine love, but the major factors that destroy relationship is due to the lack of mutual understanding, appreciation and effective communication that is required to keep the light of love shining. To this effect I'll like to elaborate on key factors that can never help someone have a stable relationship and how this factors can be curtailed.
1. Lack of Mutual effective Communication
Love is established and ended through communication. Whenever there is lack of communication in a relationship, it gives rooms to loop holes to abhor various sort of issues and insecurities. Due to lack of communication in some relationships,the woman might start to think the man is cheating on her, same applies to the man too. Communication is expected to be mutual, you dont need to wait for your lover or spouse to call you before giving him/her a call. When you observe a bridge in your communication, make it known to your partner to understand the reason for the lapses and quickly adjust.
2. Lack of Appreciation
It's no news that everyone in life likes to be appreciated one way or the other, but the question is, do everyone like to appreciate the other? The answer is a "No" of course, and that's where we all get it wrong. When there's no level of appreciation between a man and a woman in a relationship, this gradually loosen the bond of connection between them. Always learn the habit of appreciating your spouse at most time because it strengthens the bond you share.
3. Lack of Mutual Understanding
Two people can never work together unless they agree. Mutual understanding brings about agreement and love. It's heartbreaking when your spouse becomes more complicating than you think as he/she hardly makes you understand situations of things any longer. There are times your relationship might be reserved over an issue and needed to deal with it within. In this situation he/she might need space for a while before your intervention. Just get to understand his/her mood and your spouse understands yours too.
4. Lack of Good Character
There is usually this saying that "It takes character to sustain a relationship. You might be wealthy or rich, charming and adorable, but if you lack a good and adequate character to sustain your relationship, it'll definitely crumble one day. That's why it's better for relationship partners to work on each other's character before getting married.
5. Infidelity
Cheating and Adultery is one of the most common issues in many relationships and marriages today. It has even become a lifestyle for many men and women as they can hardly do without cheating on their spouse. That's why a relationship should be defined from the starting day and those involved should be real to themselves and make sure to never hide anything from their partner. It takes emotional maturity to reorganize a home. Prevention is said to be better than cure. So be faithful to your spouse and stay contented with what you have.
Thank you.
