It is not easy for men to achieve success.

Are you a boy or a man? Being a man is not so easy. A man will do anything for the safety of those he loves. He can jump into any difficult task for the people close to him. If he has to push himself into a risky job for the safety of his family, a man does it even if he sacrifices his dreams.

A boy can become a man by birth, but it is not so easy to turn from a boy to a man. If you are over 16 and if you don't start being aware of your own responsibilities and duties in life, then achieving success in life is much later, you will never be able to change yourself from a boy to a man. Everyone is born as a boy, but until you can change yourself from a boy to a man, you will not succeed in life. Yes, you heard right, everyone is born as a boy, but not everyone can go to the grave as a man. The transition from a boy to a man is not so easy and this transition does not depend on age. Masculinity depends on your personality. Manhood depends on your promises and words. Masculinity depends on your nature, character, thinking and how strong you are mentally.

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Do you know why it is so important to change from a boy to a man to succeed in life? A boy has to change his life from boy to man and change from the society he lives in. For a boy to grow from a boy to a man, he has to take responsibility for his own life, just as he has to take responsibility for the lives of the people under him. When a little boy sees a toy in the market and cries out for it, he does it only for himself, but the little boy standing in the same place who has already become a man looks at the toy at his younger brothers and sisters sitting at home. He starts thinking about love and hate.

If you only want to achieve success for yourself, then you will never achieve success. If you only want to achieve this success for your own happiness, then success will not catch you. When you can associate your loved ones with your success, when you start chasing success for your family, success will start looking for you. Until you can share your happiness with others, you cannot change from a boy to a man. Until you can make the right decision to change your life, nothing will change in your life. You will not become acceptable to people until you hold your life decisions as tightly as a man would. Those who run away from responsibility can never attain manhood.

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To be a man you have to fulfill two types of responsibilities. 1 is individual responsibility, 2 is social responsibility. What do you know about personal responsibilities? You must have some dreams about your life and your future. And you must know what you have to do to fulfill that dream. The tasks that you have to do to realize this dream of yours are your personal responsibility. To be a man you must first perform these tasks correctly. You have to make a promise to yourself that you will leave your dreams fulfilled. And in fulfilling this dream, no matter how many obstacles come, you have to overcome those obstacles and move forward, otherwise, you have to change those obstacles and make them your friends and move forward. And thus as a man you have to fulfill some social responsibilities besides fulfilling your responsibilities.

As a man, your first social responsibility is to make yourself a good person. To be a man you must first be a good man. If you can't be a good person, you will only be a boy, not a man. If you cannot judge justice, cannot distinguish between right and wrong, then you cannot become a man socially. You will never see success if you only chase after money while trying to achieve success in life. You must first achieve success within yourself. First of all, you have to get rid of your bad habits, you have to gain physical and mental strength, if you think you are a man and on the other hand, you look down on a job, if you think that doing that job will lower your self-esteem, then remember that you are still Could not achieve manhood.

Remember one thing very well, unless you can take responsibility for others, you will not achieve success. Success is not for everyone. At least those who have not yet taken responsibility for their own lives, have not yet enjoyed the joy of being successful. If you like the writings, please share it with everyone.