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How are your friends? I hope everyone is well and I am well too. By the grace of God, today I have come to participate in a great contest organized by @mostofajaman sir in the Bangladesh community. For this, I would like to thank @mostofajaman sir. who has organized such a beautiful contest and I really liked this topic . So let's get started.

How do you feel about attending a wedding event at a relative's wedding?

We are all at my brother's wedding.

The joy of attending the wedding of any relative or neighbor is truly immense and today I will present all the details of my brother's wedding and marriage means happiness. No matter what kind of wedding it is, attending a wedding is a different kind of joy and it is a lot of fun to be involved in that wedding along with observing the wedding ceremonies from the beginning to the end. Every wedding ceremony is a very special day for me and I love to participate in those special and interesting ceremonies with great joy and with all the family members.

How many wedding events have you attended and share your feelings and experiences there?

Taking pictures with the bride and relatives at the wedding

I have attended many weddings, because from childhood to today, I have attended all the weddings of relatives and family members, and this has never happened again.I will not go to that wedding hahaha I have attended every wedding and even if I had some important work that day I tried to attend the wedding. When I was in class three, I had my annual exams and my own uncles wedding was happening at that time but we all wanted to attend that wedding but because I had exams everyone tried to leave me out of the wedding ceremony but I passed the exams and attended the wedding again because I have a special feeling during any wedding ceremony, so I never miss a wedding.

If you are married, how was your wedding event completed? If not, how do you plan to complete the event? Tell us about your plans.

Wedding meal time

I am married and my wedding ceremony was completed several years ago but even after attending the wedding ceremony for my relatives, I could not complete my wedding with much success because after the wedding was fixed my father suddenly fell ill and had a problem with his legs and I have no brother of my own so there was no one else at home to do all the wedding functions except my father but due to his illness the wedding ceremony was supposed to be completed although it was supposed to be completed, later that decision was cancelled and the ceremony was completed in a very simple and domestic manner. The wedding ceremony was completed with only family members and according to our customs On the wedding day, we got married with our family members, so I still feel a little bit of regret about it.

If you have any customs or traditions of your family or area at wedding events, please share them with us.

The last moments of the wedding ceremony

In our area or our family, we carry out wedding ceremonies with several rules, the first of which is the ceremony of holding the gate at the wedding ceremony. It seems that this ceremony is popular in many countries everywhere. We do the ceremony of holding the gate with great joy because here the groom's sisters-in-law or sisters-in-law join this ceremony and make the groom stand in front of the gate. They are requested to cut the ribbon and before that, they are asked to hold it from the groom. The groom is forced to pay a large sum of money to enter. Also, some things are fixed before the wedding, but in those weddings where they are not fixed, the groom's status is A feast is arranged by serving the wrong water. Then the groom is asked to choose the right glass of sharbat and if the bridegroom can do that, then a feast is held there. Then the groom cuts the ribbon of the gate and enters. Then, while eating, the groom is fed by his sisters-in-law and is forced to pay various amounts of money at that time. At that time, the groom was forced to pay again. Then, everyone's food and drink were completed. The groom and the bride were seated together and then everyone gave the gift. Then, a mirror was placed in front of the bride and groom and the bride and groom saw their faces together in that mirror. Then, the groom was asked what he was seeing. He answered according to his choice. Then, the bride was also asked what she was seeing. Then finally a big safety pin is attached to the groom's Punjabi and the bride's orna clothes and the groom is forced to pay money for everything all in all the groom is put in a difficult situation. After the groom and the bride leave, the next rules and regulations are completed at the groom's house. All the ceremonies are performed at the groom's house and after the ceremony, the last ceremony is performed at the groom's house, which is permission to enter the wedding hall. Here, the elder and younger siblings decorate the wedding hall with flowers and they work hard to decorate the wedding hall with flowers and then the bride is allowed to enter there and then when the groom goes there to enter, a large amount of money is collected When the groom pays the money there, then the groom is allowed to enter the house of his dream and thus, a marriage is successful through various rituals and ceremonies at every step of the marriage.