My experience //@habdallah

Hello guys..
Do you know that one of the biggest possible problem that anyone can encounter on the way to success is failure? Taking action and putting yourself into something new and unknown may definitely be challenging, but it is nowhere near the difficulty of dealing and overcoming failure.
Failure presented itself as something clear and public since childhood, you failing an exam was a clear sign of failure. Later, I realised that failure could also be private and hidden. You can disclose it any one you feel like or not do that if you want.

My story of failure wasn't like that of many people. My was that as a youngster or teenager i never did believe in my self. It might sound weird to you, but that was my failure and it did caused me a lot of harm if i am being fair to you.
I never believed in my self that i could even learn something for it to stick for it to stick in my head not talk of me believing that i could ever passed an exams or test. Even as a teenager among my friends or colleagues i didn't believe or think that i was a perfect match or was i even suitable to be their friend. It felt like i was scared to do anything because i thought i might fail at the end. So i failed to believe in my self.
My problem wasn't recognised by many but only two people did. My mom was the first to recognise that, and a tight friend of mine too.
I was often mocked or laugh at by friends and people around me most at times. That is when i failed at doinv something.
But my mom was there always for me, she told me to let go the fear in me. Which is me not believing in my self. I do remember i sometimes cry running back home to her with tears flowing on my cheeks.
She taught me how to master courage and be strong. She told me i should always believe in my self, and that i can do whatever thing i intend to do, and told me it was normal to fail at something, she said it will be easier when you go for it the second time.

Trusting yourself can build up your confidence, make it easier for you to make decisions, and reduce your stress levels. And the good news is that even if you don’t trust yourself now, with some effort you can build up that trust over time.
Tips for building trust in yourself
There’s no one more important to trust than yourself. Sometimes we lose trust in ourselves after we make a mistake or after someone criticizes us harshly or constantly. It can feel more difficult to make decisions when you can’t trust yourself because you fear you’ll make the wrong choice.
Building trust in yourself can help boost your decision-making skills and self-confidence. This can make life feel a little easier and much more enjoyable.
Here are some tips to help you learn how to trust yourself:

♡ Be yourself;
If you fear how others will look at you or judge you, you might find it difficult to be yourself around other people. Acting like a different person than who you really are is a sign that you’re lacking self-confidence and trust in yourself.So how do you build up your trust enough to be yourself around others? When you start to feel insecure around others, remind yourself that it’s OK to be you. Start by practicing around the people you feel most comfortable with.

♡ Build on your strengths;
Everyone is better at some things and worse at others. You probably have a good idea of what things you are good at and which things you don’t do as well with. Trusting yourself means being able to attempt to do all kinds of things without judging yourself too harshly.
However, if you’re looking to build trust in yourself, it can be helpful to do more of the things that you’re good at and less of the things that you aren’t good at.

Lastly trusting yourself is one of the most helpful things you can do for you in your life. It can help build your confidence. To trust yourself, all you need is to make a little effort, create self-love, and find the ability to look inward.
I am really glad i have been able to work on that.