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Dear Steam Family, brace yourselves as we dive into an eye-opening exploration of how bad times reveal the true colors of our close relationships. In this compelling blog post, we'll uncover the hidden intricacies that lie beneath the surface of our most cherished bonds and help you gain a deeper understanding of the connections around you. So, let's embark on this emotional journey together and empower ourselves to strengthen and navigate these intimate ties in our lives.

The concept of relationships and the impact they have on individuals during difficult times is a complex one. Relationships are built on trust, understanding, and support; however, when faced with trying circumstances, not every relationship is capable of providing the necessary emotional foundation. This post i will explore the reality of my personal experience during a challenging period in life, in which I felt abandoned, ridiculed, and unfairly blamed by those whom I considered close to me. The argument will be supported through detailed discussion of events and instances that demonstrate how these relationships faltered during my time of need.

First of all, I sincerely apologize for my prolonged absence from this platform. During this time, I have been going through a challenging period in my life. I want to share my personal experience, not for sympathy, but to reveal the harsh reality that many people face without anyone to listen to their pain.

My name is Syeda Mahnoor, and I am 20 years old.

I am a single mother of a cute two-year-old son.

My father passed away when I was seven years old. My mother, a traditional Punjabi woman, prioritized her sons over her daughters, believing that daughters were burdens. Consequently, I always felt unimportant in her life.

When I was only 16, my family arranged for me to marry a man who was 15 years older than me. Unaware of the implications, I accepted the marriage for the sake of my mother and brother's honor. Sadly, the marriage was unsuccessful due to my husband's abuse and cruelty.

I left him and returned to my mother's house only to find that she had remarried. Despite realizing it was too late, I tried going back to my husband but was met with divorce instead.

Now living in my father's house under my brother's control, neither he nor his wife wants me here. During these hard times, the relatives I believed would support me have turned against me – blaming and taunting me and even avoiding my presence in their homes.

My brother started mistreating me, beating me and telling me to die and leave his house. For the first time in my life, I saw hatred in his eyes, which shattered me. I even contemplated suicide,

but when my baby started crying and asking me what happened, I stopped myself. I realized that I need to be strong for my child, as I've done everything for them. My brother and his wife no longer talk to me, and I spend most of my time in my room.

A month later, my brother and his wife were blessed with a cute little daughter.

They started favoring her and ignoring my son, always closing their door when he tried to interact with them. Despite this, my son still calls out "mamo mamo" and waits by the door whenever my brother comes home from work, but sadly, he is consistently ignored.

They hide everything from me in their room, and my sister-in-law prepares and eats meals with my brother behind locked doors. For a whole week, my baby and I went without proper meals, until I borrowed some money from my cousin to get by.

After a week, I managed to secure an online job through a friend's referral.

I work tirelessly, sacrificing my sleep and personal relief for the sake of my baby. Despite the challenges, I find happiness in this opportunity and have faith in Allah, who never leaves me alone and provides for me. InshaAllah, one day my life will change for the better. I kindly request all of you to pray for me and not expect anything from those close to you, as it hurts more than anything. Take care, everyone

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