Eat Pussy Like a Pro: Oral Sex Tips

Only 1 in 5 women can initiate an orgasmic response solely through penetration. For the rest, climaxing calls for clitoral stimulation, and through oral sex, the clitoris gets all the attention. What's more, a study published in 2019 discovered that partners who engage in oral sex are more likely to have long-lasting, positive relationships.

But then, so many people don't know what to do when they bury their heads in between a woman's thighs. Here are a few tips to get your oral sex on point.

1. Instead of plunging into a partner's vulva like an Olympic swimmer, ease into it with some seductive teasing. Begin with a kiss on the neck. After that, massage their tummy, inner thighs, and around the vulva. Feel their nip with your tongue. Get your kinkier partner in the mood with some spanking, dirty talk, or role-playing.

2. Spread out your coverage at first

Avoid immediately seeking out the clit! Instead, try applying a light touch all over at first. Start by pressing down on the tongue's flat surface, and then steer your head rather than your tongue. As a result, there is more area to touch, and at first, that's what most people prefer.

3. Ease into it

When beginning oral administration, a lighter touch is preferable. In fact, the clitoris alone has about 8,000 nerve endings, so you should proceed with caution. To ease into things, try indirect stimulation by circling your licks around your clitoris. Pay attention to your partner's verbal and physical cues to determine how firm you should be when touching and licking their clitoris or vulva.

4. Use just the tip

Use the tip of the tongue in oral games if your partner enjoys more targeted, pinpointed pleasure. Once a woman gets more aroused, the tip of the tongue can apply more targeted pressure and movement." If you want to make sure you're licking the clit and not just smearing saliva everywhere, focus on the physical sensations your tongue is experiencing. The frequency with which this occurs exceeds your expectations.