Instead of directing our attention toward the thoughts that bother us, why not direct it toward those things that will inspire us? By doing this, we will be able to live a more fulfilled and meaningful life. When our thoughts move toward the things that will make us feel good, then we will have the courage to pursue those thoughts. In addition to directing our attention to the good things in life, we can also divert our thoughts toward the good things that others can do for us. By doing this, we will start taking responsibility for our own actions and our own feelings.
Did you know that when an individual thinks of something, they can actually change their internal world to match the thoughts that they have? This is true whether the thoughts are positive or negative. For instance, if someone has a negative attitude, the thoughts that they have will cause their internal world to be negative. However, if they replace their negative thoughts with positive ones, then their inner world will become more positive. The new thought processes will allow the individual to take control of their own life.
Most importantly, do not attempt to change your thoughts for someone else. You must first believe that it is possible for you to change their thoughts to match your own. Then you can ask them to accompany you on your journey to changing your own thoughts. At first this may seem intimidating. However, over time, people will understand that being able to change other people's thoughts and feelings for the better are two things of real value. Thus, they will gladly accompany you as you make your own personal changes.
By developing a better understanding of your own thoughts, you will be able to develop a better relationship with yourself. It will be easier for you to make changes to your life, because you will know that you can alter your thoughts. Thus, you will also have a greater ability to motivate others to follow your lead.