Recently I heard one saying that,
"I love my phone"
what does this mean? You can't love a thing, you can only use a thing.
If you are gonna love things, you needed to understand the fact that someone is using you.
All multinational companies needed us all to fall into their products, so they are gonna market it in the way in which they can attract our minds. It's good for them not for you.
There is an interesting dialogue from the movie 'FIGHT CLUB' about this ;
"The things you own end up owning you".
So you should love people not things.
One kind of misinterpretation is when we think attraction is love. When a boy sees or talk to one girl, what he feels is Attraction, if he thinks it is love, then he is mistaken.
It's only happening due to the chemical reaction happening inside your head in this teenage. If someone other sees the girl he may not be needed to feel the same thing, which means that it's not about the girl it's all inside your head.
If two people are in a relationship they all showing their good side to each other and doing a lot to show they love each other.
In real love, you don't need to do things or act like you are loving. For example, just think about your past interactions with your MOTHER is there anything that means that you love her or she loves back. What does this mean?
You don't need to act as you love, it's known.
Before loving someone you needed to love yourself.
Real love comes from self-fulfilment.
There are no expectations. For example, if you are very much passionate about buying a new phone and finally you get that. For a few days, you don't have any more desires or needs.
You are fulfilled and you need nothing. At that time everything that comes out of you is love. You love everybody out there and you don't need that love back. But it will not last for more days. It will end up after a few days and there comes new desires and new thoughts again totally messed up.
So in my opinion to love someone you needed to be completely free from that materialistic desires and start to love yourself and love what you do. It's the same thing with the students we don't love studying we love that thing which we will get after completing the study.
There is nobody out there to teach you how to love studying. Everybody is talking to you about the money, safety and security you will get after completing it. It's needed to be changed.