It looks so simple in your writing. You are a man that does some work and then you get Attractive Mary or not so attractive Mary. But there is still a missing link for me on what else women select, because I've been on a bar and can't get any Mary. Maybe Mary is raising her standards.

My family name is a city, so maybe at some point my family owned the city. Quite unlikely, maybe we just left it and had it as an identifier of our exile. Maybe we had stories to tell of how it was somewhere else. That would be a nice narrative, as I have changed home cities/counties already a few times.

Now the new goal is to everything at once. Be a nerd that makes money, works out, tells stories and gets attractive, wealthy, sportive, storyteller and nerd Mary too.