There have been times when I just feel that I am at a roadblock, no going forth or back. It happens in businesses, relationships, investing and other aspect that makes life fulfilled. If you have experienced this or currently experiencing it, then you need to read this till the end. When there is no space for opened ideas, you start to feel empty, things start to feel unachievable and so on. What do you do at this point?
Take a break and see the work from a different perspective
I was working on a proposal on a freelance proposal for a multinational at one point in my life and then I went blank. Writing the wrong thing means I will not be getting another job and there will be no referral, also the company would be losing money and clients, so I decided to take a break. I went for as long as I could, I did not look back and I forgot about the work. I came back to the house looking at the problem from a different angle because my brain and nerves are settled, and I did not have worry much about it.
Comparing yourself with others is wrong
There was a time I was having problems going forward on a project, this was because I was following the roadmap of a person I saw as a competitor. I compared myself with someone else and I wanted to be better than him. I tried everything in my power to overshadow him instead of being myself and this did not help me at all. Attract a positive environment into you by not judging yourself, no one is better than you. When I learnt this and started doing things my way, I enjoyed every bit of my project and the stumbling block became flat.
It is in the mind not in the air
If you feel everything is finished and there is no way forward, it is in your mind and if you feel the solution is around, then you will work towards getting a solution. Know this, everyone who is successful failed at one point or the other and if they had kept that failure in their heart, then they would not have been successful now. If you move from failure to failure, without the loss of enthusiasm, then success is going to be yours.
Never expect too much from people wither in business or in life
You are always feeling down every time because you expect too much from life itself. You are to believe more in what you want to give to life and not what life has to give to you. Do not expect too much from people around you, rather you must be concerned about what you can give to the world. With this, you would not be disappointed or worried about life, giving you the ability to find solution for things.
Expecting things from people usually results in constant dissapointment and heart break, I have understood that the most appropriate way to live a peaceful and happy life is never to expect anything from anyone.
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Definitely dear colleague the most appropriate way to keep our sanity is by not expecting anything from anyone.
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It is true that life will always put obstacles or stones in our way but they are obstacles that we must learn to overcome, as you say either by taking a break and thinking or simply by facing it, everything will depend on what kind of setback it is. Life is not a path full of roses only, also has to face the thorns.
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Hi @ajewa
In the path of life we find many obstacles, knowing how to overcome them and move forward is very important.
The attitude of each person is fundamental.
Thank you for sharing such excellent content.
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We always get dissapointed when we expect too much from people and it is only logical not to trust our happiness in the hands of others.
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