An obstacle to our growth.

in hive-175254 •  3 years ago 

Hello dear friends, I hope you are very well and have an excellent week. Today I come with a topic that I am sure affects many of us or at some point we have gone through it. "Unfortunately sometimes our own enemies are us and our mind, we are the ones who let our mind play against us and let our goals take a back seat. Or at least it has happened to me and many times.

It is a very difficult and complicated situation, many times we get stuck and do not know how to get out, some seek professional help, others simply do it by themselves, in short, staying stuck should not be an option.


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We usually do it unconsciously and I think this happens because we are afraid to leave that place where we feel comfortable and calm, our comfort zone. Changes can be very hard and throw us off balance, make us lose our equilibrium, but we must learn to live with them and accept them. They are almost always good.

Among the types of sabotage that we can experience we have PROCRASTINATION, a very common issue, I have also gone through it, procrastination sometimes plays against us because we never put an end to that task or that important matter. It is a bad habit and very difficult to disappear, but not impossible.

EXCUSES, these are another way that we often take in order not to accept or face problems, tasks, changes, in short, we keep putting a stop to what we fear so much or that we simply feel insecure to face. Sometimes not trusting ourselves can play a dirty trick on us, this affects our confidence and can set us back in our goals.


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LEAVE TASKS UNCOMPLETED, this can also be very common, perhaps due to lack of concentration or lack of focus, but it is a big mistake, I believe that we should not start something if we are not sure of finishing it. We must be sure to plan and organize our tasks and goals, but we must also have the discipline to accomplish them.

That word DISCIPLINE is closely linked to CONSTANCE, these are two qualities that successful people have and must have in order to accomplish everything they set out to do. Sacrifices are part of that race called SUCCESS, otherwise I think it would be almost impossible to achieve great things in our lives.

So once again I say that we are the only ones to blame for not achieving our goals and dreams, we may have obstacles but that's what life is all about, life is like that, full of obstacles and inconveniences, but very beautiful at the same time. I think we should always repeat that to ourselves, that it is worth it to move forward and enjoy the road.

So think again and meditate on why you are not achieving or fulfilling your goals, is it really life or are your actions not benefiting you?

Thank you for reading my post. Greetings!

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Greetings friend @franyeligonzalez. Very good article you present us to reflect more about always keep our goals or objectives set, which we should never be negative or pessimistic, we must always give our all for everything and keep fixed and clear our purposes to meet our expectations, always in life everything is a sacrifice because those sacrifices are what we value because it costs us to achieve them, Regards friend thank you for sharing such valuable information.

Good job, we must also take into account that our goals are achievable, many times we place tasks, very unattainable goals and often tell us that we can, but we must be aware of where, how and with whom we are, this is important.
thank you for sharing

The decision to move forward is an individual one. The environment, some therapist may want to help you but if you are not aware of the process you will not succeed. everything you mention is true and gives us to understand that the solution is in our hands ..good article.

You're right friend, we are our own intimate enemies, somehow many times we ourselves throw the donkey into the bush, and then we look for excuses as to how it was that the donkey fell, and we were the ones who screwed up.
In this way if we do not change in this aspect we will always be our own enemy.

The writer of this article is absolutely true, moreover procrastination is the mother of assumption. Many are held captive at a spot because they lacked the insight of the information listed in this article.

Greetings friend @franyeligonzalez, a good topic for reflection, when we set a goal, we should not be negative, or say we can not, we must always give the best of us to achieve the things we are committed to do, many times we prefer to make excuses than to do something because it is a little complex to achieve, from my perspective the goals that are achieved with some sacrifice, we tend to value them much more than those we get with a very easy way, thank you very much for the publication.

Hello @franyeligonzalez, I think that in these modern times, fighting against procrastination is the most difficult part, this happens to me often, and taking control of your activities again is also difficult, but as you have said, discipline and perseverance are the most important key.

Our comfort zone is the biggest obstacle on our work and in our life if we come out of our comfort zone we can achieve everything in life. Life is full of enjoyment but because of this thinking I cannot do that we cannot achieve anything in life we need to come out of the box and live our life Fully.