How to win friends and influence people of Dale Carnegie.
FIRST PART
Fundamental techniques for dealing with others
“If You Want To Gather Honey, Don’t Kick Over The Beehive”
Understand and live.
Here, through real stories, a great truth is revealed: How complicated the human being is in every sense of the word, in the way of seeing, understanding and living in this world.
In the first place, I emphasize that my ability to accept and enjoy the positive is totally true, but different when it comes to accepting the negative. Why? Well, it's as if internally I would never want anything to go wrong so I don't have to listen to criticism, evaluations or that I have to improve this or that because there it seems that it undoubtedly affects you and it depends on who tells you and how they tell you. there is an immediate reaction to the defense. It seems that it was a reaction that does not have ages because it happens so much in children, young people and adults that when receiving criticism or being judged immediately comes the defense, but as it is also true that we human beings differentiate ourselves by our behavior, being then where it is visualize different ways of accepting and evaluating criticism by thinking carefully before responding.
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The social and cultural environment.
I think that our capacity for development depends on our preparation, from children to adults, education at home that includes values, in schools and universities, the social and cultural environment without neglecting the experiences of life in work because human relationships, I think they nurture a lot. Perhaps because I speak from my person as someone who loves to talk and learn, that is not why I am going to put aside the fact that there are types of people and not all of them relate easily, I wonder is it that we should all be nice? Everyone has their own concept of sympathy, I personally believe in kindness and respect because being everyone's friend is okay? I think this is a very long series because who are my friends, my neighbors or colleagues, can I have the same relationship with everyone? My answer is no.
The possible to achieve it.
Understanding others without judging and criticizing them is easy, for me, but I do my best to achieve it I cannot come here today to read this first chapter and say that I understand everyone and never criticize, on the contrary sometimes I do, starting with my daughters because I am the father of two, maybe I don't even realize how many times I criticize in my thoughts a friend, coworker in my day-to-day relationships, but I do take care of myself a lot and it is not to offend people, Another thing is that despite the years I like to learn too much, I do not limit myself at the same time that I like to teach but not feeling like a know-it-all.
Understand your actions
That if I am interested in the book beforehand, yes, I am totally sincere because there are readings that I lose interest in them and this, however, has already made me reflect on how I criticize or draw attention to my daughters. Another interesting point when they refer to criminals or murderers, I think it is an issue where you have to have a lot of psychological foundation of professionals in the area to understand their actions and that led them to be like that, but I accept that for me it is very difficult for now to see a world as extreme as saying "He killed him but he is not guilty"; I do know that I am not the fairest to judge, much less anyone's judge, I am not even a lawyer but just as it has been proven that innocent people are convicted there are also guilty according to law.
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Learn from it
I do believe that certain experiences and mistakes can make us a better person, even when something does not go well for us, as we always wanted to see the good side and learn from it. Another thing is that yes, I totally agree that people have to understand them, something very important is that people like to be heard.
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It is a classic world in the world of business.
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Everything also focuses on our state of mind, who stimulates us to relate according to a family member, work, relationship, how important it is not to stop being ourselves, not to make a judgment if knowing, is important since each of us handles our truth .
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There are many things that can be talked about from this book, without a doubt that to criticize or not, is something that in a certain way we do even unconsciously, but we must have very clear that we are not perfect, and that maybe other people will criticize our actions that for us can be normal.
The upbringing of each one of us is determinant, of course, that is what gives us the basis to be the adults that we are.
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is a very interesting book that educates and guides on how to improve relationships and c better manage relationships, helping to be more efficient and positive.
A very good material for reading.
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A good review and i think all members of the community should give it a read :)
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Interacting with people in a way that they feel loved is a good way to keep in touch, understand and respect each other's values better, wonderful review.
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Certainly the formation we receive from our environment determines how we defend ourselves when we are criticized, I think that this influences later when we criticize others. If we have been severely criticized and we are full of resentment, in that way we will tend to judge others, the result is a vicious circle because we do not manage to correct the situation that is being criticized and the other person only gains resentment and in that way will continue to act, if it is an employee or a family member, we will only manage to make them act unwillingly. Instead of criticizing others we should try to understand why they do what they do, and then explain why that action does not benefit them and their environment, of course, speaking with sympathy and tolerance requires character and self-control.
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Very cool how you compare the book with your life, and how the book helps you understand your daughters
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Each head is a world and each individual has infinite criteria that, although they will not be shared by the majority, will always be the way of thinking of that individual, even if he is wrong. Each individual can be made to change their perspective, but it is very difficult to change their way of thinking, but not impossible. With a lot of work and commitment it can be achieved ...
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