We are creators, therefore any person can create for him the life he wants, since our own life decisions can build what we dreamed of or destroy what took us so much effort to create. The important thing is to build for us the life we want, the one that fulfills our expectations, what we should never do is to build a life that is what others want for us.
Nobody knows our needs, nobody knows our virtues and weaknesses better than ourselves, so we are the ones who must build a life by our own decision and adapted to our needs.
If we do not listen to ourselves in this achievement of aligned factors that allow us to build a life due to our own decisions, then we will be limited by the failure to move further and further away from a creation of life where only our personal criteria depend, so that in the background we will most likely want to make decisions driven by other people's opinions.
Is this really what we want for our lives?
Once the path has been identified, the only thing left to do is to work on it and reap the fruits, the important thing is that we have already made a coherent decision based on building a life that adapts to what we really want, and that we have thought very well about the benefits to be obtained.