Our life as long as it is lived on an earthly plane will be what we want it to be.
Life can be a complex thing to define, yet in a small world of simplicity we can reflect on the fact that life is a process by which we must fulfill various purposes as long as we breathe and are active on this earthly plane.
There are many circumstances of failure that dictate and shape our lifestyle, but other than that life itself can be mastered like a wild foal.
Therefore under my perspective and life experiences, our lives end up being what we decide for it, life more than a conceptualization ends up being a process under which we can mold the laws and patterns that dictate our course of life.