Why lending money destroys the relationship??

in hive-175254 •  9 days ago  (edited)

Assalamu Alaikum. Greetings to all friends of the Project HOPE community. Hope you all are doing well by God's grace. Alhamdulillah, with your many prayers and the infinite mercy of God, I am also very well. We pray to God that we may always be healthy and beautiful.

Today I am here to write about a real topic among you. And that is about the fact that lending money destroys relationships.

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To get along with people in our real life, we have to get along with each other. Sometimes we fall into financial crisis and we need money. But when we need money, we have no other friend by our side.

But if someone lends us money in the day of trouble, we can never express our gratitude to him later. If you ever lend me money, you have to work very hard to get that money. Because I was in danger before and getting the money saved my danger. Now I don't know you anymore and I don't need to know you. In fact, can it ever be a sign of good mentality???

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When a person does not express his gratitude after receiving a favor from another, this is where the human relationship breaks down. Because the person you have lent money to is now completely safe from danger. But you have to pay back the money again and that person is really ashamed because of that. Because now he has no money and how can he pay you back?

Basically, this is where the relationship broke down and I couldn't return the money on time as I promised. Not being able to return the money on time creates a trauma in the mind of the person and from there the relationship starts to deteriorate.

So your suggestion from me, if you ever borrow money, try to repay it on time. Because money is the only thing in the world which is the only content to solve and create problems in our real life. So arrange to repay the money before borrowing it. Because lending money is likely to ruin your relationship.

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