Comparing oneself to others

in hive-175254 •  9 months ago 

In life, there may be people who feel that they are behind on their way to progress and compare themselves with people who are at a higher level than them, whether financially or intellectually, and this makes them feel frustrated and unlucky.

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But the truth is that people are different and we cannot compare ourselves to the latter. Comparison always makes you feel less value from others.in order for a person to continue his progress and successes in life, he must focus on the strengths and achievements he has achieved only, without comparison same with anyone.
Because excessive comparison leads to a person feeling miserable and dissatisfied with life and destroying his self-esteem. He also feels jealous and frustration, despair, and feeling like someone he is not well enough, which may lead to suffering from excessive anxiety or depression.

You must remind yourself that every person has different strengths and weaknesses. Perhaps you see a successful and rich person and start comparing yourself to him, and you do not know what things he suffers from, and that he may have failed many times in his life, and you begin to focus on him being better than you, and this comparison makes you regress a lot in your life and lose self-confidence. So you must look at your goals and not pay attention to others tell them, but try to focus on your activities and achievements, but comparison may lead you to failure and a feeling of despair and frustration.

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Comparing yourself to others will make you grow. The problem is overdoing it.