7 Things You should Never Share With Other People

1. Your goal:

Don't tell everyone your goals or objectives. There are scientific reasons behind this. One research found that hormones called “Endorphins” were secreted after we reach a certain goal. It is also called ‘Happiness’ hormone. When you tell someone about your goal, the hormone “Endorphins” is secreted and ‘Happy feelings’ comes. As a result, the urge to meet that goal is reduced from within. Moreover, if you tell others about your goal, they may disappoint you with negative thoughts.

2. Personal life philosophy:

Everyone has their own life philosophy. You should not have to discuss the matter with everyone outside. The reason is that your personal life thoughts are completely your own. It should never be expected that someone else thinks like you. Because they also have their own thoughts. It is more likely that it does not match with you. So sharing your personal thoughts with others can lead to 2 problems-

(a) You may be humiliated for your thoughts.
(b) You may get involved in pointless debates.

3. The story of helping someone:

Don’t tell others that you helped someone. Because helping someone is your greatness or generosity. But if you tell someone else, it will reveal your arrogance. In this case, other people around will also be jealous of you. If you help someone, your achievement won’t be spoiled and your fate will reward you in the future.

4. Private Property:

“I bought a diamond necklace, a cellphone, or an expensive apartment, do you know?” This kind of talk reveals arrogance. Remember your property is your personal, you will enjoy its benefits. Other people will feel jealous if you told them in a showing off manner. Property is for one's own enjoyment. Telling others about property is never profitable. Rather it may increase your enemy.

5. Family problems:

Every family has some kind of drama. So, never tell others about your family problems. Remember that the story of your problem will become the subject of gossip of others. Moreover, you may have thought well and told someone about your family problem, but one day it may become a boomerang and people will insult or judge you by reminding that past incident.

6. Other people’s confidential information:

Never gossip about other people's secret information. And if someone tells you his secret, telling others about it could be a breach of trust.

7. Unpleasant past:

Everyone has a past in life. We regret past events and mistakes. You will learn from the past and improve yourself. Don't go talking to someone about an unpleasant past, whether it's your own or someone else's. Reminding someone of their unpleasant past provokes their grief.

So friends, you must have understood that there are 7 things that you should never share with others and harm anyone. If you keep these in mind, you will have a unique personality.

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