She pointed to me and said, "the child's brain is broken." I almost collapsed when I realized that if she looked at me like that, then others might be the same.
The story comes from the book infinite possibilities, the child is Jim queke, who fell off a stool in kindergarten, had a serious brain damage, fell off the stairs at University, and the brain was damaged again. But now a world-class brain master, he said please don't label others. When you label someone or something, you set limits for someone or something invisible, that label is the limit you set.
Jim quack spent a long time digesting the label "this child's brain is broken", and he also uses the doctor's rehabilitation training and his own summarized system method of brain upgrading, fast learning and advanced life, helping 200000 people break through themselves and achieve extraordinary human life every year.
Among his clients are mask, the world's strongest brain Scott flansburg, the Guinness world record holder of human computer, pengxiaoyun, founder of onion reading, and other domestic and international elite experts.
To help more people upgrade their brains and learn quickly, he wrote the series of methods into the book infinite possibilities.
Lie one: to make mistakes is to fail.
Einstein is famous, so it is thought that he seldom makes mistakes, but it is not. He has made many mistakes, such as seven major mistakes in the various versions of relativity due to carelessness; when calculating the clock synchronization related to experiments, he also made mistakes; and he made many mistakes in the calculation of mathematics and physics knowledge.
Seeing Einstein's mistakes, do you think Einstein is a loser? Of course not, because Einstein never let mistakes stop his own pace. After efforts Einstein won the Ph.D. in physics from University of Zurich, put forward photon hypothesis, successfully explained photoelectric effect, established narrow relativity and general relativity, and finally won the Nobel Prize in physics.
My son went to the middle school class, and came back from school every day, and he would write the number 1. When he first wrote it, it was called a ugly one. It's just a mess there. But I didn't say he was ugly. I said it was good. Draw it. It is in such a mistake that the number 1 of the son is written more and more beautiful.
A man never makes a mistake because he has never tried something new. If my son never tried to write numbers, he would never make the mistake of writing ugly, ugly, and wrong.
If you can learn from mistakes, then mistakes will be your stepping stones. It was because of the mistakes that led to his son slowly learning to control the pen and then wrote the number 1.
It is common sense to make mistakes. Mistakes do not mean failure. On the contrary, if you let failure hinder your progress and can not learn from failure, it is the biggest failure.
Lie 2: knowledge is power
We all heard the word "knowledge is power". Many people regard it as the reason for our study, as if only knowledge can give us strength
In fact, the word "knowledge is power" comes from Thomas Hobbes. "The purpose of getting knowledge is to gain power; the application of the theorem is to build problems," Hobbes said. Finally, the goal of all speculation is to carry out an activity or to do it. " In short, knowledge is very important, but to transform knowledge into power, it must be put into action.
So you see, I said above: "to make mistakes is not equal to failure. The biggest failure is not to learn from mistakes, "after this knowledge point.
Keep going to work again, but you make mistakes. The leader criticized you very hard. If you say to yourself, "I'm useless, I'm a fool.". Then the knowledge you see is to see nothing. You don't use it, that is, you don't put it into your life.
The right way to do this is: you find the cause of the mistake and correct it. Learn from mistakes, then the better you will be. Knowledge becomes the power of your progress.
Remember, knowledge is not equal to strength, but knowledge × action = power!
Lie 3: criticism from others is important.
The funniest thing in the world is that people are afraid of others' opinions, so they stop and restrict their own expression of their true thoughts. How many of us live in the eyes of others, our goal has always been to make ourselves look smart, beautiful and good in the eyes of others,,,
It's like in our place. Although it is spring, the temperature is still not very high. We also call it cold in spring, and the temperature difference between the morning and the evening is very big. If you go out to work at 7 a.m., you can actually keep warm in your sweater under normal circumstances.
But many women wear only one single autumn dress. Ask her if it's cold or not. She said it was cold. Why do you have to wear that thin one? She said I was afraid that I was told by others. It was so thick in spring. How ugly it was.
This is the typical concern for others' opinions, live in others' eyes, and ask what is the main purpose of your dress? The answer is, of course, warmth, what does other people think has to do with you.
If you want to be a real self, you have to get rid of the fear of criticism from others.
The first Wright brothers in the world to invent a balloon. In fact, they were criticized by countless people because they were not successful in the process of invention. At that time, countless famous scientists have explained that humans cannot fly.
The Wright brothers' invention is no different from the famous scientist. People are forbidden by known common sense. On their first flight back, there is no band welcome or color band. The only welcome is the voice of doubt. One of his neighbors said, "I know you are honest. You say you are flying in the sky in a machine. I believe you. But that's because on the coast of Carolina, there are special conditions that can help you.
But the Wright brothers didn't care about criticism. Then we continue to study, and then we have the first hot air balloon in the world.
No matter who you are and what you do, please don't let others' opinions and expectations influence or even ruin your life.
Conclusion:
"The best fresh keeping in the world is to keep improving and make yourself a better and more beloved person," said toyoo.
"We can be better ourselves because the most valuable gift God has given us is our brain, our brain has unlimited learning potential, and learning power is our super ability," jimquik said in the book "infinite possibility".
What we have to do is learn how to learn. How to break the restrictive thinking mode and find the core goal to create this continuous motivation. A life that makes a remarkable self. "
Remember: our brain makes everything possible for us.