Have you ever had a relationship like this:
That person, he only allows himself to look for you, whenever you take the initiative to find him, he will only feel very tired.
A friend around me met such a thing. In a cooperation, she met a man. However, once she came and went, they became acquainted and confirmed the relationship between men and women.
Finally, she talked about love, she was very happy, but gradually she found that only when he was actively looking for her, she would be more enthusiastic. However, if she was active, the other party would always ignore, or perfunctory or impatient.
At first, she thought that it must be because the other party was too busy, and she was also blamed for not always disturbing each other, but later, although she carefully cooperated with each other's time, everything had not changed.
When you fall in love with someone, it is inevitable that you always think of him and want to find him. At this time, if the other party doesn't welcome your initiative, you should stop taking the initiative again. He is probably not the right person.
Contact needs to see time, which will be very humble.
Think about it. When you like someone, whenever you want to contact him, you should think about whether he is busy or not. If he will be angry with you, your mood will be very bad
Moreover, you are so miserable, but you can not have any opinions, but you can only take care of each other's time carefully, always according to the other party's ideas, afraid that you will provoke each other.
At the end of the day, you always think about what he is doing and thinking about when you should contact.
Even if you find a good time, you really contact him, and you don't know how the other party will treat you. You should always say sorry to the other party. I hope you haven't disturbed him. On that day, there will be no happiness, of course, it will only be very painful.
But more importantly, even if you put yourself so low, it is often useless. He will not appreciate it at all, and will not care about your feelings, but will just take you more and more seriously.
Don't be silly. In love, put yourself too low. It never wins the love you want, but it only makes you lose more and more, and your state becomes worse and worse. Love a person. That shouldn't be the same.
He doesn't love you that much, someone who can't disturb at any time.
When you take the initiative to find someone, he doesn't care about you. He is very tired of it. You may find many reasons to explain it for him. It is very hard for him to think that he didn't mean to do so to you.
But you need to know that when you love him very much, whether he looks for you in the morning, at noon or at night, when he looks for you, no matter what you are doing, you are often not angry, only very happy.
In fact, for the person you love, you will only look forward to his news, and will not feel bored, love you, what is not.
So if a person is often a person who doesn't expect your news, there is no other reason, but he doesn't want to know your news, doesn't want to waste his time on you, and doesn't want you to disturb him.
As for his enthusiasm for you occasionally, it is not from love, but it is just boring occasionally, and it is just to find you to spend time.
For him, he just wants to find you, you can appear in time, give him a response, as for him not to find you, you better be quiet, do not appear in front of him, do not break into his life.
Good love, is you can contact anytime and anywhere.
In this world, everyone is an independent individual, and can often deal with many things just by themselves.
At this time, we are in love, which is not to find ourselves unhappy, but just hope that there is such a person, each other can talk at any time, can stand behind themselves at any time, can share all at any time.
It is time to miss, can be disturbed at any time, when meeting things, can be disturbed at any time, even if there is nothing, still can listen to the other party's voice, and talk to each other a few words.
It is because of this that we don't feel like we are always alone and are always so lonely.
Love is so, regardless of time, location, want to contact can contact, no matter when contact, heart can be very solid, understand that the other party does not hate themselves, will only be willing to answer their own phone, receive their own message.
If even the contact can not be done, there is no basic company, then talk about what emotions, when needed, that person is not always there, then, he will not have to be in.
There is no standard for feeling. You can love anyone you want to love.
But, you can fall in love with anyone, but later, you must first see if the other party is worth it.
But every man, he does not want you to disturb him, so love him again, it will not have any use, his world, do not want to have a you, you to him, but it is only redundant.
Feel you are redundant, make you become very humble people, love you also need to learn to give up.
After that, you always want to contact you, even if you look for one, you can contact and disturb the other half at any time.
The one who is willing to accept your emotions and treat you well will be a good choice.