One of my friends got too worried when I resigned from my job. Yeah, she is my true well whisper and didn't want me to end up like that. It took me time to make her realize,** 'it's okay', 'I'm okay'**. It's okay to take a break and breath.
I know how the society forces us to do this or that, to achieve, to become 'ssomething'. No one will ever teach you to 'be nothing'. maybe it's in our basic instinct so that humans never stop growing and developing. But learned it from my life how necessary it is to understand 'it's okay to not become anything', it's okay to be nothing'. Sometimes taking the time to relax, smell the roses is very necessary.
Life is not all about rushing from one taste to another. I can understand how important it is to achieve something. And that's why I will not tell the same to a teenager, to a person who just started his career. But for me, in this age when I've done my study when I've done with my job when I have a son when I'm crossing my 30s; I can tell myself to 'STOP.'
I can afford to take a break. And if you think you can't, I would say try your best. Life is not a competition where you need to finish the line as early as possible. Everyone gets their time to fulfill what they want. I know, maybe you will not agree with me. Because there are certain things which we think we need to achieve at a certain age. But don't you think that 'it's a mental barrier' set by the society? Don't you think like a human with so much brainpower we should have a different 'sstructure of life'?
I'm restructuring my life. It's not like I'm fully happy but I'm practicing to change my perspective about happiness. I understand lately why I should change the way I used to think. There are many who are doing the same. It's like taking a break, giving ourselves time to find the true meaning of life, changing our perspective, and searching happiness in our own way.
Your way can be different but never forget to walk. It's more than necessary to give ourselves time to walk rather run all the time!
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I had my University degree in 'Public Administration' and later did my Post Graduation in 'Human Resource Management'. I also gathered experience working with HR in a multinational Organization. Besides that and most importantly; I'm a life & nature enthusiast, I love to learn human psychology, I'm a 'Book worm' and very introvert but also love to travel. I'm trying to live mindfully and sure, I'm a positive learner.
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