Hi! @shortsegments very good reading, I would like to share my opinion about it, I think that life is a coming and going of experiences and it is only about learning, necessarily the first time we will not get everything right, so I consider that failure, when I decide to give up and not continue trying, that's why I am here again, in Steemit, struggling to learn from you and from your particular way of explaining things from your experience and points of view, sometimes, it's just just a learning -process, and between being and not to be we are, that's why as the song says we must be non-substantive verbs