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Salutation to you all my Steemian friends, hope you are all good today?. It gladden my haert to participate in this wonderful and interesting Contest,contest , it a good topic because anger is what put us and the society into problem .
I also appreciate @aviral123 who brings out this amazing topic.to us for discussion.i really appreciate him.
WHEN YOU'RE ANGRY, WHAT DO YOU DO ?
Any time someone offended me that push me to anger which is as a result of annoyance, I will be carefully take time to reason myself what will be the end of this anger ,so in this case I will try as much as possible to calm down my temper,so I will find my out from the place and seat at where nobody will see me to make me cool down my heart,if possible as a man,I look for a 🍺 beer parlour to refresh my self with a least a glass of red wine.
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Sometimes I will take my anger straight to the opposition who makes me angry or what caused me the annoyance that let to my anger. This is based on the kind of occurances that happened .
But me it good to handle anger in a.good.way because when we are not happy, it's show's on our faces which also distroyed our health being.
WHAT CAUSES YOU TO BECOME ANGRY?
It is so common in people's lives that a a lot of things causes them to become angry.
But in my own life, what really cause me to anger mostly is "disappointment " this is something that makes people to be angry because when you are disappointed in life at any point in time it leads your heart to anger.and that exactly what always happens to me when I'm disappointed.
A time when am at my work place trying to do my work perfectly and and another person still put work load to me it makes me angry.
Another thing that cause me to anger when someone Maltreat me the way and manner I don't like it pushed me to be angry.
DO YOU HAVE A QUICK TEMPER ? OR IS IT UNDER YOUR CONTROL?
Honestly speaking,I don't have quick temper as such rather it depends on what happens to me , but even though what happens to me yes I will try to put my anger under my control , so that it will reduce much tension on me.
In the other way round, quick temper is not a welcoming development in our way of life because it can lead to death
or unrightful Court case that makes some to spend money unnecessarily .
A time if I exchange words with someone and I quickly looked at it will make me angry or fight I quitely leave the place for peace to reign.
ANGER IS OUR FRIEND OR OUR ENEMY ? STATE YOUR IDEAS.
YES, Anger can be a friend or enemy base on how it is been express and also considered,
• Anger seen as.a friend means it serve as caution to avoid problems or motivate us with good ideas to leave in life.
It a friend because it will make a person to quickly underlined bottom line of issue and how to avoid it.
It is normal that after the whole mese of what we do,we discovered that it was wrong,a time we become shy in the face of the people who afvice us to calmed down.
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Anger as a enemy lead to destruction, regrettable decision that was make during the happening.
And normally leads to bad health condition such as high blood pressure.
So we need to avoid anger.
PLEASE OFFER ADVICE ON HOW TO MANAGE ANGER ?
About managing anger ,i do know that it is not easy to control or manage anger base on individuals difference,but no matter what happens, we should it little reflextion of what it will cause us to anger. I do adivce that we should be paying attention to our inner mind first, the spirit that is talking to us don't do it.
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These are my few advice:
• Try to step away from conversation that will lead you to angry.
• Listen to people's contribution on what happened.
• Be patience at all times when you found your self in the pot of anger.
More over, you have to know that all these need continue process of practice to develop a self discipline personally.
I do invite
@goodybest @trafalgar and
@megareigns to participate in this contes