SEC-S16/W2 - "Childhood trauma and incidents: how do they affect our children's life? "

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Greetings to all,
First of all, I want to express my gratitude to the Steemit platform authority and this community authority.Because our children of today are the future of tomorrow is a common proverb or eternal truth.

So we should have a different positive view of children.This community authority has selected this awesome content, keeping children in mind.For this reason, I agree with them.

The questions were logical.Before I answer the question, I invite some of my teenage friends, @elpastor, @jasminemary and @yancar.

What are the problems faced by children, & which are all childhood traumas?

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Children become physically and mentally ill if they suddenly see an accident in front of them. Many times, when we are harsh with children, it damages them emotionally.

Children are often segregated from other children. It creates a barrier in a child's intellectual development. Some families forget to give time to children in the urge to earn money. Because of this a child may also become speech impaired.

Although we are citizens of a free country, children are still subjugated. Each of us can observe that the children in our family have many obligations.

Even you and I are involved in it. We constantly try to keep children from getting too close. This cannot be done, that cannot be done, it is not right to go in that direction, etc.

Moreover, we may sometimes discipline children for something they do independently. Also, let me tell you that you should not do this at all. Children take these words as an injury.

Maybe children don't think as deeply as adults. But at that moment, such words hit them hard. In such a situation, we will see that the impressionable facial features of children become dirty in a moment.

How to protect children from social bullying?

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Since a child is born into a family and the family grows up in it, the family can protect a child from all abuse.

If a child is not valued in the family, no social value is given to him. So the first priority should be given to the child over the family itself.

First of all, we should know about it: how many types of torture? Only then will we refrain from those actions. Otherwise, children will be abused by our behavior without knowing it.

Children also have the right to express their opinion, be it in family or any social setting. Children may not be able to make sound decisions like us, but we are able to listen to their opinions.

How to educate our children about good touch and bad touch?

I will link this question with the second question. Because I have already said that the children's opinion should be accepted. But their opinion must be assumed to be correct.

Can children accept it at all?

I will say no to the answer.

So how can children be educated through good touch?

Yes, I would say it is possible. First of all, I will be interested in the children's opinions. Later, the result of that opinion should be presented in front of them, both positively and negatively.

It is so that the child can playfully or joyfully realize whether his decision was correct or not. I am 100% sure that those children will definitely be able to accept the matter of good and evil between them.

Because children are unable to think deeply like adults, So try to educate them according to their consistency. In which the children will not be small in mind but will learn something better. This is the only way to educate.

What do we have to sacrifice to raise a good child?

Of course, raising a child requires a lot of sacrifice for a family. Many of us think that by enrolling the child in a very good school and spending a lot of money, it is possible to educate the child well.

This idea is completely wrong. Yet it is confined to the pages of books that a family is a child's first or primary school. First of all, we have to give importance to women's education because an ideal woman is an ideal mother.

Moreover, first of all, everyone has to spend a lot of time with the baby in the family. Childhood is the best time for the intellectual development of a child. Supporting a child's intellectual development in childhood requires parents and others in the family to devote a lot of time to the child.

There may be quarrels and disputes in the family, but to bring up the child properly, we must refrain from them. Care should be taken so that family problems do not create anxiety in children's minds.

We have to give a good environment to the child. Always have a positive attitude toward the child. The eyes cannot be kept from expressing their opinions.

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