"Pick a Word, Paint a Story #03"

in hive-179660 •  5 days ago  (edited)

Hello my steemian friends,

This is my participation in the contest” “PICK A WORD, PAINT A STORY #03" By @senehasa in Hindwhale Community

HOME

I am also very happy that our respected @senehasa ji has chosen very beautiful topics, but I liked the topic "Home" the most because I am a homely person.

Many people think that buildings made of bricks, bars, cement and stones are called home, but in reality home means a place where all the members of the family live together happily and do all the work together.

The most important thing is that whatever we all become in our lives, we become it from within the four walls of this house. According to me, home is an institution that builds our primary foundation, in this house we are given basic education to give values, respect for elders, love for younger ones. In this house we are taught to walk, talk, eat and drink and mostly good things.

I also believe that whether we make our home a temple or a shrine or a house of quarrels, fights and contempt, it is the collective responsibility of all our family members. In today's modern society, nuclear families are being promoted.

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MY HOUSE

Now a days most of the new couples are preferring their own nuclear homes instead of joint families, because they want to avoid accepting the bonds of joint families, whereas in our joint family homes we get security, freedom, satisfaction, freedom from worries.

The real home is the one in which all the family members, grandfather, grandmother, uncle, aunt, their children, aunts, brothers and sisters all live together in each other's happiness and sorrows. In these joint family homes, any member considers everything as his own, there is no yours or mine in it.

Whatever resources are there, they belong to everyone. In these homes, festivals, ceremonies etc. are celebrated with great enthusiasm and joy and gaiety. In such houses, when any calamity befalls one member, all the members of the house provide mental and physical help to that member.

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MY FAMILY

In my own house, we are 6 members, my husband, my son, his wife and their 2 beautiful children, we all live together happily. In our house, we have divided the responsibilities among ourselves, like all the market related work of my house is done by my wife , earning money is done by me and my son, and my daughter-in-law does other household work like taking care of the house, preparing breakfast, food, and caring the children etc.

We all fulfill our responsibilities very well and always respect each other's feelings. My grandchildren are taught good and true values of our joint family life so that they can grow up and become successful people.

The citizens of any society and country have a very big role in building its future, and such good citizens are produced only from homes with good values.

I also want to invite here
@mehwish-almas @tammanna and @dove11

Thanks for reading my post, I pray to God for the progress and happy future of all Steemians.

With Great love and honour,

Sur-riti❤️

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@tipu curate

The love, care, respect, and support of the family members transforms the house into a home. Thank you for participating in the contest.

How are you brother, I hope you are healthy and beautiful and today's post is definitely very important. You have presented a very nice post here. It is true that in the present era, the customs of joint families are not seen very much and instead of the joint family, everyone is choosing a single family and everyone is just trying to make their own family smaller.In the past, there was a lot of joy in joint families and the relationship that existed within the family was very precious, but in the present era, that relationship has no value. Here we see more families as single families and here we see very few joint families. I don't know whether those joint families in the future will completely disappear from our society. I really enjoyed reading your post.Also, it's great that your family is still in a joint family. It's so good and it's something that's so nice that it can't be explained as family relations.

Hello my dear beautiful sister,

You have definitely made me happy by supporting me, today in the new modernization there is a growing trend of nuclear families.

And now you are right, joint families will not be seen.

I always "tamanna" you happiness and progress.

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Home, the word needs no explanation. So complete in itself. Whenever I go anywhere, 24 hours is my limit to staying out. I remember when I spoiled a whole vacation. I live in an area where the temperature in June July rises to 45 degrees or more. On the fourth day of our vacation at a place where the temp was 16 or maybe 18, I literally cried on the road to go home. I asked my father whether to take me home or book a ticket on bus. All others said why the hell are you here?🙃 ..... And finally we drove back home. I thought I missed my family members who were at home, but last time when all of them were with me ,on the very first evening I missed my room , and even walls of it 😂. Well thank God that was another flop and we returned just after 3 days.

Your grand children are so cute. Mashallah

Hello my dear friend, Namaskar/Salam,
You are right, the pleasant feeling, security and love that we get within the walls of our home cannot be found outside, no matter how grand the environment outside is. It is possible that we go out sometimes for a change, but the pleasant feeling of home food, home environment, things in our room keep occupying our hearts and minds.
My grand children are my replicas. Hahaha, isn't it?
Well, stay happy.