We see the rubbish in someone else's eyes, we don't see the beam in our own eyes. People are more likely to see the flaws of others, they are skilled at it. We magnify the tiniest issue of others and ignore the most important issue of ourselves.
There is a concept called self-sculpting on the subject. Let's think of what happens to your benefit as an event of destroying what is to you and what is to your detriment. We have a hard time keeping a measure here. We always act towards ourselves. However, at least you need to show sensitivity and care to yourself as well as to others, and say that I have these mistakes and mistakes.
If you do this, you will be doing well, and you will be doing yourself a favor. Otherwise, sifting others and not seeing any faults in yourself will lead you to dilemmas and deadlocks in the future.
Virtuous people are based on themselves rather than others. He tries to correct his own mistakes and mistakes. He is happy about it, gets taste and flavor.