Steem greetings,welcome to my blog today.It’s another exciting opportunity participating in this week’s engagement challenge.It’s a pleasure sharing my thoughts based on the topic given “Patience” .

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People have past through alots in life, there feel like giving up.But at thesame time we feel things will get better and the next thing is to excercise patience with positive hopes in future.Focused on the questions given I will sharing my ideas below.

Do you tend to lose your patience easily or do you control yourself all the time?

Am someone I have noticed myself I easily get angry and as a human when you know your weak points .In life you need to avoids such, it take grace for someone to always exercise patience all the time. This is because there are certain things you can’t keep calm but the easiest way is to react toward it or air your mind to be free.

I remembered three months ago I gave order for some dresses from one of my costumers in the market.I wanted to buy from someone else but she pleaded with me to give the money her that the dresses will be available latest in one week time.

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Unfortunately for me one week turn to 3months.She keeps on giving me fake appointments to come and collect my dresses. At one point I could not excercised patience but I had to take my money back by force.She didn’t wanted to refund it back to me but was also not ready to give me dresses I ordered.I ended speaking to her badly because of the way she treated over my own money I gave her.

What is it that makes you more desperate or stressful?

The truth is that in life there are times you are financially down and very desperate to have money to take care of your needs .When you try all means you know you can have money from it knocks. Here because am desperate I started having some thought like everything is coming to an end.

Even though, I try to control myself but I can’t at point because I will not be able to think freely or sleep .With this am just angry without a smiling face making me stressful and depressed .I think is normal for everyone passing through some difficult moments in his or her life .

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How do you avoid losing your patience?

In life I have just decided not to involve myself in things that will end up make me to get angry and will implicate me to lose my patience .I try much as possible to avoid people who love talking about others and can’t discuss anything important with me that I can learn or impact my life.I don’t want a situation at the end of day it will start bringing problems and I will be unable to control patience.

At times things I know is just tempting me to lose my patience I just laugh, watch games, movies and distract myself trying to forget about them not to lose my patience. Like nothing happened to me,Life at times is very easy when you take certain measures to make yourself happy than complicating things.

When you lose patience how do you act

When I lose my patience and am angry .The next thing after airing my mind is to cry .For me crying makes me to feel relieved .Staying lonely without talking with no body for while or going to bed to sleep.

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All these is to avoid making transfer aggression to innocent people. If I don’t do the above I have mentioned .I might end up not controlling myself, talking to people around me not in an angry mood.

What advice can you give us regarding patience

My advised to everyone is that in life there are situations that people will provoked you to lose your patience.Not everything in life should make you reacts.At times it might cause you harm than good.Just smile over it and it out of your mind.

Also, no matter how you are struggling to achieve something in life and is not going .Don’t give up,it can only be delay and not denied.The patience person always eats the fastest bone.Patience is the key to succeed in life.

Lastely, In life you will meet different categories of people .You should not expect people to behave like you or accept your views in life have the patience deal with people and know you can’t be right all the time .Exercise patience to learn from others.

I have come to the end of my presentation .I will invite @wilmer1988 @crismena @josepha and @adeljose .