From my own experience, I was faithful in school, homeworks as a child. I always tried not to dissapoint my parents, teachers, classmates... and complex of this things went to my really wrong and in appropriate expectations I had on me I think due to school education, not my parents they are really supportive and I am grateful for that. One of them is for example, what proffesions I thought were suittable for me. Now, I know they arent, and still fighting with prejudices from my surroundings, but I am steadier than in past. This imo is happening also in other aspects in life, like your life golas, personality type, behaviour... But many people do not get support even from their closest people, like family, and it´s hard for them to change direction of their lives, and that imo kills happiness and in the end also creativity in them.