Do you think it's right to trap man with pregnancy

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Hi steemians, it's a privilege to participate in this contest as organised by our amiable @okere-blessing.

On the issue of ladies using pregnancy in get a man to marry them. I would say that such games is a game of luck, yes, it is a "game." If it wasn't a game, no lady will accept to go "raw" with a guy without monitoring her cycle or use any form of protection. I mean who does that?

I know most of our ladies are guilty of this. Why would you use a pregnancy to trap any guy, were you forced or raped? I'm not against anyone getting pregnant while in any relationship, at least keep the pregnancy with the guy's consent, though I don't encourage that. Instead if using that as an excuse for him to marry you. As for the sins we commit, that one is between you and God.

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Before I'll answer that, I have an advice for our young men. "You see, make sure you sleep with a lady/woman you know you can get married to." Because shit do happen that you may have to marry her like that, though for me it's not compulsory to marry her.

I have seen a movie about a lady who got pregnant for a guy, though hers wasn't to pin the guy to marry her. Her military father insisted that the guy must marry his daughter, that's how the guy married this girl compulsorily.

Though, there maybe other reasons to why ladies use pregnancy to trap a guy to marry them, but to my knowledge, these are the following reasons;

• They use that to get out of single hood market.

• They do that because they genuinely love the guy and would do anything to keep them, that includes getting pregnant.

• Lastly, it's for personal gratification.

Based on that, I have known of a lady who dated a married man who had no child with his wife. So this lady intentionally wanted to get pregnant for the man in order to share in the man's wealth. She eventually got pregnant but unfortunately, she couldn't make it. She died in the process of delivery, her child was taken care of by another person and she ended up losing everything.

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Yes, there are which I don't know about. But the ones I have known have not been ending well because the ladies are usually mistreated and cheated up on till they'll leave on their own.

The one I know living together till now, the lady is just enduring the man. He cheats and beats her up at will saying she wasn't the wife he wanted to marry.

No matter what happens, avoid using pregnancy to trap a man to marry you, rather, just pray you end up with the right man. If he doesn't love you, he may not love you with the pregnancy, it's a risk to attempt that.

Thank you for reading.

I'm inviting @chilaw, @missyleo and @mehakbhatti