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Oramai e' un fiume in piena che si ingrossa di giorno in giorno.
Saranno almeno 7/8 amici/che e conoscenti che hanno deciso di
separarsi dal/dalla loro partner dalla fine della pandemia.
Ovviamente quel periodo di convivenza forzata non ha fattoaltro che aggravare situazioni pregresse.
Chi come il sottoscritto, per decenni, ha lavorato dove gli altri si divertono (come gli animatori....sono i ginecologi...) ha visto cose che voi umani...
Le coppie oramai non sono piu' abituate a vivere insieme davvero, si arriva la sera, una cena rapida, un po' di tv e si va a dormire....un colpettino ogni tanto...i figli coi loro problemi e poco altro.
Dovere stare insieme per una, due settimane e' per molti una sofferenza da cui e' difficile uscire, figuriamoci in pandemia relegati in casa senza la possibilita' di uscire se non quella di portare fuori il povero cane che non puo' pisciare 10 volte al giorno...
Forse e' proprio l'istituto del matrimonio e della convivenza sotto lo stesso tetto ad essere in profonda crisi, il fatto di โrestare assieme per i figliโ oramai non regge piu' come dimostra il drammatco aumento di casi di violenza domestica sulle donne registrati in questi anni. Semplicemente molti continuano a vivere insieme per motivi economici perche' e' diventato impossibile andarsene per ricominciare altrove.
Ho sempre pensato che la monogamia fosse una sorta di crimine contro l'umanita', mi sono attenuto nella mia vita a questo pensiero; meglio uno o due giri di giostra ben fatti che un lungo
trascinare di un qualcosa che, per natura deve avere un inizio ed una fine. I giri non sono ancora finiti per fortuna...
E' facile restare insieme quando tutto va bene, il vento e' in poppa, i redditi sono buoni e le stelle alte in cielo, diventa complicato continuare a farlo quando si e' investiti da venti contrari che
modificano la nostra vita in senso negativo.
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Now it's a raging river that swells day by day.
There will be at least 7/8 friends and acquaintances who have decided to
separate from their partner since the end of the pandemic.
Obviously that period of forced coexistence did nothing but aggravate previous situations.
Those like myself, for decades, have worked where others have fun (like entertainers.... they are gynecologists...) have seen things that you humans...
Couples are now no longer used to really living together, we arrive in the evening, have a quick dinner, a bit of TV and go to sleep... a nudge every now and then... the children with their problems and little other.
Having to be together for one or two weeks is for many a suffering from which it is difficult to escape, let alone in a pandemic relegated to the house without the possibility of going out other than taking out the poor dog who cannot pee 10 times a day. day...
Perhaps it is precisely the institution of marriage and cohabitation under the same roof that is in deep crisis, the fact of "staying together for the children" no longer holds up as demonstrated by the dramatic increase in registered cases of domestic violence against women in these years. Many simply continue to live together for economic reasons because it has become impossible to leave and start over elsewhere.
I have always thought that monogamy was a sort of crime against humanity, I have stuck to this thought in my life; better one or two well done rides than one long one
drag of something which, by nature, must have a beginning and an end. Luckily the laps aren't over yet...
It is easy to stay together when everything is going well, the wind is at your back, incomes are good and the stars are high in the sky, it becomes complicated to continue doing so when you are hit by contrary winds that
they change our life in a negative sense.
Come analisi della situazione attuale delle coppie non รจ male. Forse su alcuni punti hai centrato il problema.
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