Swim With My Wife | Her Hidden Agenda

I have forgotten my promise to my wife before we got married in 2016, when we're in a long distance relationship as couple. She said she couldn't swim and she wanted me to train her how to. I agreed but never mentioned about it because I know her. She wouldn't reminds me if she's not ready yet.

October last year, she bought swimsuit special for muslim woman, from online shop. She did the runaway walk in front of me in her new swimsuit and said "You have promised to teach me how to swim, when?". I asked her to arrange the time because she's busier than me in term of activities. Going out with friends, attending religious meeting, playing splinterlands, shadow hunting, swimming, cooking, and many more.

_{We went to Kolam TASA (Tasa Pool) in Tuesday, January 14th, 2025. She's been bugging me about swimming here since November last year.}

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She then registered to be a member of swimming for healthiness group managed by our neighbor, every Tuesday morning. When she came back from her swimming session for the first time, she told me that she wanted me to teach her how to swim again. She decided that a day before her next swimming session was the day. Then she bought so many cheap swimming equipments as I suggested.

_{Our second time swimming together to teach her 3 new techniques}

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In our first session, I taught her to overcome her fear of water. She's not an aquaphobia but she needs to enjoy being underwater. The basic training like jump in, sliding, kicking and breathing. After that day, she'd sent me some videos about her progress or told me everything she did in the pool. 4 weeks later she told me that she can do back flipping underwater, and managed to lay on the water on her back. I thought she was bragging, because I haven't teach her, yet.

On our second session, she showed me what she's been doing in the pools and I was proud of her. She already a swimmer. But not the faster one. So, I taught her another techniques. Freestyle, dog paddling (this is a good technique to swim in the river) and breaststroke. I found out that she's good at holding breath but very poor on breathing technique 🤦. She's so good at making excuses for that. So be it, as long as she's happy.

Yesterday, she supposed to went swimming with her group. But then she told me that she wanted to try swimming at a different swimming pool because the one she's going is a private swimming pool and not challenging anymore. I think she has a hidden agenda and use swimming as an excuse 😅.

_{I knew it! She needs a model for her phone photography thingy🤦}

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We spent an hour in the pool. She did swimming well now. I challenge her to try the freestyle and breaststroke. She did it well, but her breathing technique is still lacking. She holds her breath and it's getting longer after a few short laps. She's probably a natural born swimmer in her bones (who knows she's probably a merflok in her other life🤣🤣not a mermaid, imho). I often play the swimming for beginners video at night for her. She told me that she learned how to swim better in her dreams after watching it🤔😲.

_{her hidden agenda!}

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She's always playing her role as a photographer of the group. I found so many photos of her friends in the group but a few of herself was a selfie. Which means, she didn't asked anyone to take her pictures or videoin her. She needs me to do that 😅. I don't mind it at all. I am her other half, no matter what.

We got out of the pool when she felt a bit discomfort in her stomach. I guess she's hungry or too tired after my intentional challenge. She didn't complaining about the washroom or the pool this time. She did that in our previous sessions though (in 2 different swimming pools). We ordered noodles because I was hungry and sat under the tamarind tree at the garden cafe, part of the place.

_{The outdoor swimming pool is a part of the whole Tasa Club. I think cici is going to review this place soon. She took enough pictures to create a post.}

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Finished our lunch, she's taking her time taking more pictures for the contest or next post. I need to remind her about the time, or she'd stay there till her phone battery drained.

_{weird pose challenge 😎}

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I fire up my old scooter, @cicisaja hopped on and she said "Let's go back to swim here, next week. I'll change my swimming day with the group to friday afternoon". 🤔 Had I missed something? She still keeps something in her mind about this place?. When I create this post, she reminds me about our 9th wedding anniversary next Friday 😄 I have no idea what's her planning to celebrate the day. All I know, she'll go to swim with me next week.

A kind hearted, energetic, full of hilarious ideas but easy going wife I have, I couldn't ask for more❤️