Don't let's the situations define you, of a truth it's not easy to overcome when you are facing with real challenges of life but the trust is that it will never last forever.
Don't let situations define you and completely down you. Everyone facing challenges in one way or the other, who ever didn't summoned courage might fall off while on the struggle field.
Nothing last forever, the good situation can be visited with unpleasant scenery and unpleasant situations may turn from bad to good. One day it will be open and truth shall prevail.
Whatever going on now, never lose hope, thing's will never be the same again, stay positive and focus.