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How to find a life partner

When it comes to the issue of choosing a life partner, many people apply different methods.....

Dating

Dating is when two people are in relationship, getting to know themselves, examining, accessing, checking each other to know the sustainablity of the person to be a wife or a husband.
As a guy if after examining and analysis the lady and she seems to have a good qualities, he will then propose marriage to her.
As a lady if the guy seems to have good qualities, she will accept the proposal and they start preparing for marriage.
But if after dating for a while and either of them didn't found other person interesting and worth to be a wife or a husband that's how the relationship will end.
This method is many on trials ND error or luck and it's majorly respondsible of the heartbreak today.
If u also check the divorce staticstice, this method of choosing a life partner is a major contributor.

Recommendation

Another method of choosing a life partner is recommendation.
This is when someone, relative, work collegous, friend or neighbors introduced or recommended a lady to a guy that is looking for a wife.
The offten base on what good qualities or character they have seen or observed about the lady.
They guy will now check the lady out, to see if it true, and from there relationship will start, and then marriage, if they boxes are thick.

Arrange marriage

This method is when two families, friend and business partners, politicals, Kings arrange for their Children to Mary each other.
More often than not, and this marriage is not in the interest of the children but to people that arrange the marriage.
Is often to strengthen their relationships, empire, business ND career, interests etc.
During ancient times, this was the method Kings used to build alliance and strengthen their kingdom.
Little consideration is given to those getting married.

What am saying in essence, the best way to choose a life partner, is to allow God to choose for you.
Any other way is full of trials, error and uncertainty.

Allow God to choose for you, that the best way.
Before God will choose anyone for you, he will put you in consideration.
He doesn't choose anyhow.
He will choose someone that is fit for your destiny, purpose, personality and temperament.
Let me close by saying that, God does not force his will on people.
You have the right to choose who you want to marry.

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