Are You Sure She Has Same Feelings For You? |Relationship Goals|

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Love is a beautiful thing. A feeling and connection that everyone craves to have. If you have felt it before, I guess you understand what I'm putting across. Every man will be willing to give everything they have for the woman they love and want to spend the rest of their life with.

However, the worst feeling in the world for me is falling in love with someone who has got no feelings of love for you in return.

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So, one sunny Sunday afternoon we decided to put together a get-together party at a friend's place to catch up on our personal lives and socialize. These are guys and ladies in their early and mid-twenties who probably are dating or searching for someone to date.

Danny was one of the gentlemen who spotted a fine young lady, Bella who was among the four ladies in the group. All indications showed Danny's interest in Bella after our first meeting but he could not mention it. So the rest of the three in the group started to make fun with it and it seemed Bella just smiled about the whole thing and kept playing along. The guys kept making fun and Bella acted the same.

Danny believed and still believes he had a chance with Bella. His hopes are high and even acts out of proportion to please Bella and make himself look good for her. That's how every guy will take it right? Yes! and he is so happy about the way things are going.

On the contrary, Bella is not interested in dating Danny but is just playing along nicely so he doesn't feel bad. Danny doesn't know this and is killing himself for her.

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My Concerns;
What happens if Danny finds out Bella wasn't interested from the onset?
What happens to our friendship when the veil is uncovered?

To the gentlemen who do not wish to go through Danny's experience, keep this with you.

Signs That She Does Not Have Feelings for You

  1. She is always not the first to call or text.
  2. It usually takes her a lot of time to reply to your texts or return calls.
  3. She always has other plans whenever you want to see her or go out with her.
  4. She's not comfortable introducing you to her close friends.
  5. She gives brief and straightforward answers to questions even though they require details.
  6. She only contacts you when she needs your help.
  7. She doesn't ask any personal questions about you.
    The above tips are not exhaustible though. You can share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section.

Thanks, guys!
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Things about love are with the heart. So thank you for sharing about heart issue.

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You're most welcome

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