Steem Women club Engagement Contest #1 | My Husband (@benton3), Is The Most Important Man In My Life By @ngoenyi

_{our picture during my SteemWomen Club contest entry}

Greetings to you all the wonderful women and men who are going to take part in this challenge, it is my pleasure to make my entry this first week of the steemit engagement challenge. In this contest entry, I will like to talk about the most important man in my life.

Yes, at present, it is a man that matters most to me because the very first person that could have been the most important woman in my life is dead. My mother is late and as such, I have moved on and found solace in the man that married me.

My Husband, @benton3, The most important person in my life

Without mincing words, this is the most important man in my life. I got to know Him 21 years ago but he became the most important man in my life in the year 2007 when we said "I do" to each other and that is 14 years plus now. We have been together till now and we have had beautiful memories together which I will share soon.

He is Mr Enyinnaya Nwankwere, a Native of Umunkolo Mbawsi in Isiala Ngwa North L G A Abia state Nigeria. He is the second child in his family but the first Son. He is now 44 years of age.

Why he is important

He has so many endearing qualities which has drawn him to me. He is so loving and caring, he is also faithful to the vow we took which is to stick to each other whether good or bad. He has stuck to me during the times I was mourning the death of my mother who died in 2013 when my @wizzyboy3 was just 1 year 3 months. The vacuum that was created by her death has almost been closed due to his care and love. I said almost because no one can replace a mother.

One good thing I love about him is the fact that he has not raised his hand against me to hit me or to batter me. We have disagreements but we settle them as quickly as possible. That thought that you are not going to be beaten gives me a calm mind unlike what I hear from other women.

He is also a hard working father, always doing his best to provide for his family. He is humble too. These qualities have truly drawn him to me.

Memories we have shared together

For the past 14 years plus, we have shared amazing memories together. Our wedding day was a wonderful moment for us. But more wonderful memories are all the anniversaries we have shared together. We have been in steemit together, we have done promotion together, we have done contests together, and many more. See the gallery below to see if there l

_{this was the steemfoods community contest we participated together for the steemit 5th anniversary}

_{our 3rd wedding anniversary}

_{our picture during courtship, please don't laugh at me. I was very slim then, hahaha 🤣}

_{during steemit promotion}

_{our picture during my SteemWomen Club contest entry}

_{a fun moment}

_{our 14th wedding anniversary}

Looking at these fun memories as presented in the pictures above, it looks as if everything is just rossy. But not, our togetherness has not always been easy but looking at fun memories, every bad memory pales into insignificance. I am proud to be his wife and am proud of him. He is not the lazy type. I am glad he has been there for me all these while. I have made several mistakes that ought to have made him hit me but know, he is not into that. Our togetherness has been blessed with two cute kids and they are all steemians, @fortwis09 and @wizzyboy3.

Conclusion

I have been able to let you know the man that is important to me, I have shared why he is so important to me and the qualities he posses that has endeared him to me.

This contest has strengthened my love for him and the bond has become stronger. What about you my dear friends? Who is the most important man or woman in your life? Let me hear from you @whitestallion @juichi @klen.civil @eliany @patjewell @goodybest @kiwiscanfly @disconnect @haidermehdi @chiabertrand @graceleon @inspiration and so many others. Let me read your entries soon.
Thank you all for your prompt response. Let's see how it goes