The Pain and Reality of Starting Over.

Life comes to us in different shades, while some of those experiences are beautiful ones, others are unpleasant and scary and the way we handle those shades when they present themselves to us, has the ability to either make us victors or failures.

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Frankly speaking, it is not easy to get back up once there is a fall, a lot of great personalities we admire today have at some point had their own fair share towards failing in life but their decision to get back up on their feet after failing, is the reason why their names are worth mentioning today.

While it may be a good idea to start over again, there are things you should be prepared to face as they are absolutely inevitable.

Let's explore some of the challenges associated with starting over.

• People will make fun of you.

While you are trying to pick up the pieces of your life and start afresh, be ready to have people laugh at you to your face and call you names like looser, failure etc.

• It will be difficult.

The fact that you decided on starting over does not mean everything will fall into place easily and conveniently, I assure you that there will be days when you will have to cry yourself to sleep and you will basically just want to give up on everything.

• Your family and friends may not support you.

When you make the decision to start afresh with your life, it is only normal for you to expect support from friends and families, but do not get your hopes too high because they may choose not to believe in you as well. They may even be the ones to discourage your visions or say words that will hurt you.

However, the fact that these things may happen to you the moment you take the bold step of startjng over should not be the reason why you will give up because while there are downsides to these happenings, there is another positive bright side to look up to.

Reasons why you shouldn't give up regardless.

• With dedication and hardwork, you will eventually pull through.

• When you win, you will become proud of yourself.

• You will build better association.

• You will be proud to share your survival story with the world.

Thanks for reading, I hope you have a great day.

Hi, I am Tobi a writer, a speaker, relationship counselor, lover of good music. I love making friends and learning from people, I sincerely appreciate every love I get from members of the community, do well to keep them coming.