Spreading joy

Hi friends, welcome to my blog. Being Happy or Joyous is something that is dependent on individual mindset and activities around them.

By virtue of living, we are faced with incidences that make us happy in our daily activities. I made some travels and took some days off from work to attend to some personal demands. Today happens to be my first day in the office after a week off from duty.

It was nice seeing some of the faces again in the office. Though we are not meant to like all the faces especially at the place of work, but at least there are people we missed due to their significant role they play in our everyday existence.

As.soon as I entered, the warm pleasantries and welcome back hugs were so warm. We quickly cracked jokes and laughed over some matters as we tried catching up from those days absent.

Joyful moment with my boys

There are more of all above mention. There is more pain and joy, but this is dependent on which side we want to align ourselves to. Sometimes, we have to be intentional about choosing what we want and in this case most people would want to choose joy.

In doing so, we have to engage in activities that there possible returns to us is joyous and happiness. Those things that bring to us happiness are supposedly things that we should engage ourselves.

We have to be mindful that both vices be it positive or negative are in abundance. And most atimes when we try much to stay happy, there are sad or painful moments that still come our way.

As humans, we are not perfect and not void of having both pain and joy come our way. Notwithstanding, we sometimes talk about any of them to share with our partner or family our burdens or successes in life. And for pains, when we do share them, it brings us relief.

Sharing joy in full

I could remember when a friend said some filthy things at my back, and each time we see in our work place, he pretends to be all nice. He used my name as a bait to collect funds from people (old school boys) by telling them how I lost my job and and how he's helping me or rather supporting me during this period.

It was an unfortunate memories for me since I learned about this scenario and this is so absurd. Someone I see everyday, discussed with everyday, and support in all kinds as a mentor to, now backbites me. I have viewed this awkward character with serious disdain and have decided to cut ties gradually from him.

I am a jolly good fellow and a personality that has the capacity to stay with anyone. I am a happy person by default and find the prosperity of others as mine by supporting them for more heights.

When others are progressing and doing well, I am likely to precipitate their quicker growth since we succeed by helping others too. We cannot only be the happy ones around. By bringing happiness to them, we are definitely happy to give out that.

I wish to invite @chant @patjewell @ngoenyi to share their joy.