Let's get to work // Life exprience as a sailor's wife...🦋🦋🦋

Hello friends...

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In the short time we live, the experiences formed through various personal relationships are amazing.

So today I am going to share with you my experience as a sailor's wife..

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My husband is a marine engineer and we got married in 2017. This is 6our 7th year of marriage.

So I want to know what you think about falling in love with a sailor..So to know what kind of experience it really is, come and share my real life experiences.

It is not easy to share this life experience, there are many issues like the strength of his love, the trust between the two, doubt, loneliness, stress related to other social issues.

Now we have a five-year-old daughter and a 2-year-old son. With my husband's job, I have to deal with life as a single parent for half the year or so. Yes, my husband spends most of his time sailing from country to country on ships. So it is my responsibility to act so that my children do not feel the lack of him.

Usually every woman likes her husband to help her after delivery but due to the nature of his job he had to sail within 4-5 days of my daughter's birth. Also, 2 weeks after my son was born, he had to go to work. Even if we feel down at such times, we need to be mentally strong to face those challenges.

With two kids I have a tight daily schedule. But now my mind is in shape to face everything well and strong. The best trick is to always be positive. Over time I train my brain to think positively. When my negative feelings come, I talk to my inner self and get rid of them.

If think from the husband's side, he definitely has a lot to say. I think it goes without saying that he misses his children and his family. I always try to record every little thing the kids do and keep it as a memory and send it to their dad. Although it is not 100% successful, but he is happy to watch those vedios often.

I think the biggest and most challenging part of a sailor's wife is taking good care of the children and raising them until their father returns. It is really a big commitment and responsibility. Their education, paying attention to the feelings of children of different ages etc. should be done very carefully.

Talking about the positive side of this from my experience, the father of the children is not with them, and the value of the father is felt more for the child and the family. It ultimately creates a strong bond with each other.

When he comes on vacation, he spends more time with his family and renews his bonds. Affection and love for each other is refreshing.

It is really difficult to include everything about this in one post. But I hope you will like my life experience.
I invite @sakura2003,@malinga and @vishwara.

❤️Thank you for reading ...❤️