The diary game 20210421 好心办了坏事？

in hive-193186 •  4 years ago 

最近一位平时不怎么来往的同事在别人那里得知我孕期甚至是产后都买了花胶来吃，所以她亲自找到我，希望我能够在熟人那里买点。

本来对这种只是举手之劳的小事，我是很乐意做的，况且她还是一个准妈妈。我自己也经历过孕期，所以特别希望在最需要的时候能够得到帮助。

我很热心的告诉她，我自己买到花胶，甚至拿给她看过，也详细跟她分享了我之前的一些做法和心得。同时也跟她提前打好招呼，毕竟时间也过去了一年多了，价格可能就会不一样。同事表示理解和不会在乎。

问了同学后，价格果然是上涨了。同一款的从780一斤涨到860块，我也很实诚的把同学的截图发给她，让她自己好好考虑。

结果她让我去砍价，只是因为买两斤的原因。同学表示比较无语，而我也陷入尴尬。同学是我的发小，我找她买东西也都是托上托，她是拥有几套房产并且在纪检部门上班的人，怎么也不会想着占我这点小便宜吧！所以我从来都是很相信她，从不议价的。不是有句话说：用人不疑，疑人不用么？

同事回复说先考虑考虑，如果决定了再让我买。突然觉得自己好像好心办了坏事，两边都不讨好。。。。

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      ·  4 years ago 

    有些时候，人就是出力不讨好，咱要想开，反正对同事咱都尽力了。

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        ·  4 years ago 

      嗯嗯，我是尽力了

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          ·  4 years ago 

        这几天上涨好厉害😄，900左右还是普通质量，去湿后好好吃这个，对女人好，养阴又补血

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            ·  4 years ago 

          遇到这种事，说明实际情况，就像你直接发截图一样，买不买就是别人自己的事了。本来就是别人来找自己帮忙的，我给你花时间花人情，也一分钱不赚你的，还让我砍价？不存在的。所以自己内心不必纠结。

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              ·  4 years ago 

            本着好心去做的事，感觉却不是很美好。有点小落差，哈哈哈

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                ·  4 years ago 

              哎 这样很两难 物价确实挺高的

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                  ·  4 years ago 

                是的，同事可能没太留意市场行情，所以比较惊讶吧

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                    ·  4 years ago 

                  你做了自己该做的，如果对方还怪你，那就是他们的问题了

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                      ·  4 years ago 

                    嗯嗯，是的

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                        ·  4 years ago 

                      这东西贵，确实要好好考虑。

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                          ·  4 years ago 

                        是的

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                            ·  4 years ago 

                          热心肠

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                              ·  4 years ago 

                            热心肠不一定能办好事

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                                ·  4 years ago 

                              你是热心人，不要太在意别人的看法！

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                                  ·  4 years ago 

                                谢谢你的支持，放宽心

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                                    ·  4 years ago 

                                  能否砍点价，如果是你自己要，估计朋友会问下的。你朋友无语也是正常，你这也吃力不讨好。因为不是你朋友直接卖，她还得帮你再问下，你又不是直接受益者，她不想干也正常。你这朋友分得挺清。

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                                      ·  4 years ago 

                                    希望她们都能拎得清，不然下次同事真找我买时，我可不想再出什么幺蛾子了

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                                        ·  4 years ago 

                                      打错了，这几年，唉现在物价更加了(T ^ T)，批发价八九百真心好一般

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                                          ·  4 years ago 

                                        我觉得同学给我介绍的算性价比比较高的了，如果这款在市场上的话是要过千的。

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                                            ·  4 years ago 

                                          我了个去，真的很尴尬啊，要讨价，她可以自己去讨啊😂

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                                              ·  4 years ago 

                                            估计这种讨价还价的事情，她不好去做吧。认为我跟同学熟，更好开口一些。其实更熟不是更不好开口吗？

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                                                ·  4 years ago 

                                              用人不疑疑人不用

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                                                  ·  4 years ago 

                                                嗯嗯

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                                                    ·  4 years ago 

                                                  办事还是不要让人为难好，买不买的痛快点

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                                                      ·  4 years ago 

                                                    可能涨价涨的有点多，她一下子接受不了吧

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                                                        ·  4 years ago 

                                                      是有点好心办了坏事

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                                                          ·  4 years ago 

                                                        嗯嗯，下会还是慎重考虑一下

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                                                            ·  4 years ago 

                                                          好生活啊

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                                                              ·  4 years ago 

                                                            做月子时买的，平时也不舍得吃这么好的

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                                                                ·  4 years ago 

                                                              又真係有啲感唧人😅早知唔鬼理佢

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                                                                  ·  4 years ago 

                                                                我就是太热心过头

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                                                                    ·  4 years ago 

                                                                  学到了，以后遇到这种事，直接推微信让她砍个够

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                                                                      ·  4 years ago 

                                                                    也是个办法

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                                                                          ·  4 years ago 

                                                                        花胶有啥作用呀

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